ET Contact and Dream Encounters
There is a roster, as you call it, of individuals who have certain kinds of interactions on certain kinds of levels, and your name is listed therein. These have been ongoing for quite some time.
Most likely, you had a few occurrences prior to your adolescence, but it seems they may have accelerated during your adolescence, perhaps 12 and 13, maybe 15 years of age might have been stronger acceleration of these interactions and encounters in that dimension of experience with that extraterrestrial species who are conducting that particular research agenda. You understand?
The Grays, a faction of that particular grouping.
There are many different kinds of agendas to the overall program, many different levels to it.
Do you find in your dreams that you are ever in any kind of classroom situation, learning something, being taught something, being shown some images?
Yes. And part of that is responsible for the creation of some of the agenda that is going on with regard to your involvement with this species.
It is like the completion of a cycle for you that you have agreed to participate in that particular program of the overall agenda, and it is connected to your ancient Orion cycles of what you think now you need to learn to be of service and create balance in your soul’s growth.
Alien Experiences and Name Change
Asker: You led me to believe that I had had experiences with aliens. I wondered if it had been in this lifetime that I had been, and I would like to know what, who, and how. Similar to what we have just discussed.
Bashar: There are a few levels to these agendas. Most of them, most of them of that particular kind of interactive agenda involve basically one species that has many different factions therein. It is similar with you as well.
Asker: So has it made me stronger or make me fearful or make me just… just me?
Bashar: Nothing. Can you answer the question yourself?
Asker: I’m a little fearful because I know they’re there.
Bashar: All right. What is the fear? What is the fear?
Asker: I just tell him to go away. I don’t want to see them.
Bashar: All right. How can that make you stronger? How can you use your fear to allow you to become stronger?
Asker: Tell them that I… I’ll go ahead and see him. No. Ask for conscious interaction. Conscious. Conscious means I really see him and everything.
Bashar: Oh, yes. But it will also give you the control that you seek.
Asker: I’ve been feeling that lately that I want… I’ve been feeling that lately that I’ve been saying, “It’s okay, I’m ready for you,” but I haven’t really consciously said it.
Bashar: Then step across the threshold. Yeah. So it be okay to see him?
Asker: My son is very… my 12-year-old, he’s going to be 12, is very aware of all this.
Bashar: Yes. I mean, most of your children are. They are unbelievable. I know they’re here to teach us. Unbelievable. Yeah.
Asker: And he’s very scared of sleeping cuz he doesn’t want them to come get him. Should I have him sleep with us?
Bashar: Or is it… you can do anything you wish, but I would suggest a program where you have a discussion of the understanding of how to get in touch with your own laughter, your own joy, your own unconditional love of yourselves, and use that energy like a flame, brighten that light within yourself to become an equal vibration to those beings so that you can ask for conscious interaction on your equal terms. That’s part of the reason why it’s happening. Okay. And one other thing, and this is my last question. This has been so helpful. I’ve been told I should change my name to Elena instead of Vivien, that it would give me a higher level. Do you… do you feel that you had that name many times?
Bashar: Oh, is that why it seems so familiar?
Asker: Yes.
Bashar: In many incarnations, you have had that name, and that is the recognition that is being given to you. You can do that if you feel it is appropriate. You don’t necessarily have to, but since you obviously already think of yourself in that way, it is perhaps a good idea that you match your vibration. But that will be up to you. But you’ve had that nomenclature many times in many incarnations, are familiar with it, and perhaps it may allow you to feel a little bit more at home with yourself if you wish.
Energy, Mother’s Death, and Dreams
Asker: I have a lot of energy, and sometimes that energy really prevents people… because it comes off, I guess, I don’t know what it is, but I can’t really acknowledge love or accept that people really love me because of the relationship that I had with my mother. My mother passed away about 7 years ago, and it was at her death that I understood the relationship because we had a very stormy, um, hate-kind-of-you-know-love relationship, which I think is what prevents me from accepting, you know, from other people.
Bashar: Go ahead and cry. You are changing right now as you do so, because crying is releasing.
Asker: I do a lot of paradise like that. That’s why I think I have so much energy, cuz I cry a lot. But it’s still there, there’s still much more there.
Bashar: You are all complex psychological consciousnesses. You have a lot of things to transform. And only because you have all compartmentalized yourselves to such a degree, you have created so many details to deal with within yourselves that it takes a long time to process all these different details. But that’s all right. Let yourself know that whatever pace you travel at is perfect for you. If you wish to accelerate the pace, just learn to love yourself first more.
Asker: Now the idea… all right, we’re getting there. We’re getting there. We’re getting there. First of all, do you feel that you are capable of accepting love on any level at all?
Asker: Yes. She said hesitantly.
Bashar: What level would that be?
Asker: Um, for my children, it’s easier because they’re my children. I don’t know if that’s, you know, but…
Bashar: You don’t have to qualify it. Okay. Do you accept the love of your children unconditionally?
Asker: Yes, you do. Yes.
Bashar: So you know what it feels like to receive unconditional love?
Asker: Yes, I know what it feels like.
Bashar: The only reason then, since you have a shining example of that in your life, the only reason you would not be able to express that in other areas or experience it from other areas is because you have this idea in your head that it’s supposed to come from those areas.
None of it comes from them. Not even the love that comes from your children that you feel comes from them. It comes from you. You have to create the feeling in yourself, in your own energy, of unconditional love out of your own energy in order to feel it coming from someone else. You understand this? This is physics. Mhmm. This is physics.
You are your own energy. You are your particular expression of the energy of the infinite. You are made of unconditional love vibrational consciousness. That’s what your essence is.
So anytime you allow yourself to feel it, it’s because you’re allowing yourself to feel your true self, the true fabric of your existence itself. So it comes, the feeling comes from you, because you allow yourself to be in touch with your truth, with your true self.
So even when your children give you unconditional love, the only way you’re capable of feeling it, of experiencing it, is by simply allowing yourself to feel the energy of unconditional love that you are made of.
Well, when you don’t allow it, why is that? Because you choose not to. That’s what you have to get in touch with. It isn’t that you need to learn how to receive love or send love. You have to get in touch with why you would choose not to experience the love that is there to experience.
You have to get involved with those issues of why you would choose not to feel it. You understand the difference? Mhmm.
So with regard to the idea of your mother or anyone else in your life, or so on and so on, anyone else you’ve interacted with that you say it’s difficult to feel this love, it’s because you’re simply not allowing yourself to choose to feel the love. Has nothing to do with them.
Feel it. Feel all the love you want because you are capable of feeling it. You don’t need another reason to feel it. You don’t need someone to validate it. Just feel it because you are capable of feeling it. Be happy because you are capable of being happy. You don’t need a reason to be happy. You don’t need a reason to deserve to be unconditionally loved.
To feel the feeling, feel it because you want to. Then simply recognize that there may be communication issues, there may be belief system and definitional issues that perhaps could be more aligned to that energy of unconditional love, but it doesn’t prevent you from experiencing it because you have all the capability that was given to you by the infinite to feel the true self that you are.
So feel it anytime you want and don’t make it an excuse that someone else has to act a certain way before you’re capable of feeling that energy, because it doesn’t come in that sense from them anyway.
That’s a validation issue which you can explore completely aside from yourself. To simply feel the unconditional love. And if you allow yourself to experience the unconditional love, it’ll be much easier to explore that issue whereupon you might have a belief system that talks about lack of validation.
Asker: Some. I have to… I have to ponder it.
Bashar: If you know how to feel an energy or have ever felt any energy in your life at any time for any reason, that energy is real in and of itself and creatable in the moment for its own sake and does not need a reason to be created other than you can do it.
That’s what it means to be self-contained. It doesn’t mean that you don’t need anyone, you can’t have anyone in your life. It’s not what it means, that you’ll never have relationships.
But what it means is you are created fully as a self-contained being, a being that is made of the vibration of unconditional love and can feel it anytime he or she wishes.
Asker: Because my mother passed away, I got there right when she had died, like minutes before she died.
Bashar: Yes.
Asker: I wasn’t able to… I didn’t know she was going to die. Yes. And I wasn’t able to really communicate with her. And it’s like, is there a way I can communicate with her now?
Bashar: You have just done it. You don’t think she doesn’t hear you? Remember that on the spirit level, there is no barrier of space and time. What may appear to be a separation and a loss and a barrier to you, to her, you’re coming through loud and clear. Loud and clear.
Asker: So is there a way that I can know she’s okay?
Bashar: Yes, of course. There are many ways that you can know. Have you had any dream experiences or conversations with her?
Asker: Yeah, I always have dreams about her.
Bashar: Well, what makes you think those aren’t real communications?
Asker: Okay. That’s her way of communicating, and it’s through my dreams.
Bashar: One of the easiest ways to communicate is through what you call dreams, because very often in what you call sleep, you are astral and out of your body and in the spirit realm where they now exist. And so you’re having real communications. You wake up, reconnected to the concept of physical reality, and say, “Oh, that was just a dream.” But you are actually out in the spirit realm, in that dimension, having a real conversation.
Asker: How do you break your connection with your dreams so that you’re not always caught in your dreams? You know, like there are many, many methodologies to become lucid and conscious in the understanding of your so-called dream.
**Bashar:**There are many ways. One way is to allow yourself, upon going to sleep, to make a statement that you will remember that you are dreaming when you are dreaming, and ask your guides for assistance so that when they come into the conversation, ask them in, invite them into the conversations you have in your dreams, so that at some point they will tell you or show you something that you will know that will jar you to know it couldn’t possibly be physical reality that you’re in.
Okay. And it will wake you up in the dream. That’s one way. There are many ways. Use your imagination, but ask for assistance. Your guides will help you remember. Okay. Thank you.
And the more you ask, then they will be able to assist you. But recognize that you have to do it yourself too. Okay.
There are many ways. One good way is to allow yourself to focus on an object, perhaps a portion of your body that will be with you in your idea of yourself in astral form, such as your hands, something you would naturally see, and condition yourself so that every time you see your hand, you will remember that you are dreaming. You understand? That’s another way.
Another way is to get it out of your system and physicalize it, perhaps by writing it down 500 times on a piece of paper and hanging that in your bedroom over your bed or something so you can see it. So as you’re drifting off to sleep, you’re looking at your ceiling: “I am dreaming, I am dreaming, I am dreaming, I am dreaming, I am dreaming,” until it becomes so second nature that you then, by having written “I am dreaming” or “I will wake up in the dream,” will eventually incorporate that idea into your essence so that while you are astral, you will finally automatically say, “I will wake up in my dream,” and then all of a sudden you will.
There are many ways. Trust your imagination, but ask for assistance. It will be given to you.
Crying Woman
Asker: All my life I have been tied into energy that caused me to cry all the time. My mother said when I was two that we would watch a movie and the feelings, you know, when it was sad or you know, I would cry.
Bashar: You are an empath. You are sensitive to the vibrations of other people and circumstances and situations and easily incorporate that vibration within your own nature. Are you a healer?
Asker: Very much so.
Bashar: Well, that’s why you are an empath. You can learn to regulate this, but it’s all right if you feel it. It’s like going on a roller coaster ride. It’s like training your vocal cords to get in touch with different emotional states so that you have an easier way of, shall we say, relating to the people that you serve, that you heal.
But you can allow yourself to balance this out a little more so that you do not have to, as you say, fall apart at the seams each and every time some little wave of energy passes your direction.
Allow yourself to utilize those portions that allow you to feel balanced, that allow you some insight into other individuals. You are simply junctioning with them so that you can relate to them by feeling their vibration and knowing who they are so that you can help them. You understand? Yes.
But at the same time, you can also tell yourself and know yourself as being more transparent to the energy so that from time to time, that which does not really serve you can simply pass through you like light through a window.
Asker: Is this why, um, from ‘85 to ‘87, I was hospitalized? And I want your feedback on mental illness. I was hospitalized for 2 years, four consecutive times. Yes. And since ‘87, I never took medication. I have never been sick. Yes. And is that why I…
Bashar: It is for the purpose of allowing yourself to get in touch with, again, certain states of mind, certain states of physical health, and so on and so forth, so that you would re-familiarize yourself with those states and also get in touch with how you can help change those states in a more beneficial and natural manner than many of your medical professions at this present time do. Yes. Yes.
Also, the idea: what you call, in many cases, your mental illness, sometimes they do become a series of locked cycles that individuals get stuck in or stick themselves into and perhaps find difficulty in getting out of.
But basically, that all stems from the fact that they are originally in touch with energies that your society has not prepared them to process within themselves because your society denies the existence of those energies.
So 80%, approximately, of individuals who are in your mental institutions are simply there because they have gotten in touch with a dimensional experience that your society has no way of accepting or processing.
Asker: Wow. That that’s great. I, you know, I also wanted to know… I know I’m a healer, and I would like to know maybe my past incarnations and who I am now. You know, what does this mean for me in this life? My future? Yes. I’m first healing me. That’s what I’m doing right now. I’m… but sometimes you can also heal yourself simultaneously while you are providing an atmosphere that allows other people to heal themselves. Excitement and passion is healing other people, and I do it very naturally.
Bashar: Then that’s what I’m doing.
Then you are healing yourself in the process as well. Do you know what I did in past lives?
You have had Atlantean lives, and you have had European lives in which you were a physician, in which you dealt with healing. Many times, but you also dealt with music because you understood that vibration is healing. And many times you have had a passion for music.
There have been many lives for all of you, or shall we say, more precisely, there are many lives going on for all of you, because these are actually multi-dimensional simultaneous experiences, not really in the past or in the future. Those are simply parallel tracks in the holographic structure.
But in many of those lives, you have explored the concept of vibration from a variety of directions, including being a musician, as we have said. You also, in some of these lives, have experienced what you call the Orient and powders and herbs in Tibet and China with regard to the rebalancing of the energy flow of the body and so on and so forth.
Asker: Yes. I’m doing it again.
Bashar: Yes. You have a tendency to use the things that work for you, and there is much, much bleed-through from one life to another life, from many different probable realities to other probable realities.
Many of the things that occur in your imagination are actually bleed-through experiences that are going on in other lives. That’s for all of you. And the experiences you have in this time track bleed through to other time track lives and give them certain benefits that come across in their imaginations or inspirations.
Wow. You are a multifaceted, multi-dimensional being that is coming and going simultaneously. You are, in that sense, not just super-conductive; you are hyper-conductive, going in both directions at once.
Does this make some sense to you? Does it strike a core chord within you in all directions?
Bashar: Our unconditional love to you as well. And your words are so wonderful. The vibrations are only reflections of yourself. Thank you. You’re welcome. Shivi, my friend, and do you good day.
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