Breakup

Telepathy and Woodstock

Asker: how do you scan the energy. I would like to scan energy. I would like to be telepathic.

Bashar: All of you are telepathic. Remember, telepathy is an vibrational identification. identification. The more that you are in love with all things, the more synchronous and harmonious you will be with them and you will know them. In that sense, then understand to love them is to know them.

That’s why we say it is not telepathy, it is telempathy. Tele vibrational Tele vibrational is a vibrational identification.

Asker: It makes me want to already read to you my story of my interaction.

Bashar: You may do so at some time in the future. Fine. Number two, sure. Good day.

Asker: I was watching uh probably a couple weeks ago and there was a a documentary on on the history of rock and roll. History of rock and roll. All right. Understood. And I saw the documentary footage of of an event called Woodstock. Woodstock. All right. Understood. It took place in 1969. Understood. Scanning scanning a human consciousness at that time. Could you sort of discuss or or or shed some some insights on what you thought that was all about?

Bashar: It was the beginning of a cycle that will have its polar opposite in your upcoming year. Of course, as you already know, 69 96. In other words, the idea is that as you began that cycle of energy back then of what you would recognize as freedom of choice will begin to play a much more important role in your realities in 1996 as you count time. There will be a further breakdown of many of the structural institutions around the world that are representative of lack of freedom of choice. Thus, 96 will be a pivotal point of acceleration of the breakdown of old paradigms and structures on your planet.

Asker: I’m beginning to meditate more and uh trust my intuition.

I’m beginning to h have visions of being a young child, right? And there was this beautiful willow tree by our house. And I can remember now, I’m not sure if I’m seeing lights. I’m not sure if they were interactions.

I’m not sure if they were extraterrestrial uh meetings or something. uh meetings or something. You maybe what those they were interaction. And you are beginning to remember.

Breakup, Relationships

Asker: I’d like to know if you could give me some information about relationship with Jeff. We have broken up.

Bashar: So, what have you learned about yourself in this relationship?

Asker: That I have been operating a great deal of not conscious time.

Bashar: Is that something that you prefer to continue to do?

Asker: No. Are you now saying that you have the opportunity to recognize that there are different things that you may prefer than you used to?

Asker: Yes.

Do those things that you now prefer make the past relationship more incompatible?

Well, there are certain things about it that were definitely not pleasant. But there are other things that show up periodically about the relationship that are absolutely phenomenal.

Bashar: Do you not think a relationship should be holistic?

Asker: Yes.

Bashar: You can serve each other by reflecting to each other the opportunity to become more of yourself, and to change how they choose to change. But also your vibration might no longer be synchronized.

If you come to a place where you recognize that you have gone beyond your preferential level of reflectivity in helping the other individual have time to change, or get in touch with what they need to get in touch with to make certain changes to become more harmonious—and you’ve gone beyond that threshold—then your duty to yourself, your duty to the other individual, and your duty to the relationship truly out of love, is to be your true self and allow the consequences of that truth to allow the relationship to change in the way that it must change, which is the way it will actually serve all the individuals involved.

And to recognize that an individual relationship that does not contain things that are representative of your preference, and does not contain an opportunity to work with those things within the threshold of your preferential modality, is not a holistic relationship.

Anyway, if you are not you, and that individual is not who he is in truth, you’re not in a relationship with him anyway. You follow?

So, the idea is to recognize that if that individual did change to become more synchronized and harmonious with your preferences—and vice versa—you wouldn’t really be the same people anyway, would you?

So, what difference does it make whether it’s actually physically another person that comes into your life or not? Because if another person comes into your life and they are reflective of an energy that you feel more compatible with, believe me, you won’t care that it’s not Jeff.

Be yourself, or there is no relationship anyway. And if that individual does change, he is a different person.

Asker: And that’s what’s been happening. He has been changing a great deal.

Bashar: Then what is your complaint?

Asker: That he’s changing. He’s becoming more of who I really want him to be with. But he’s saying that he doesn’t want to be me.

Bashar: Do you prefer someone who says they don’t want to be with you?

Asker: No.

Bashar: Then that is something that is outside your preference. It is a lesson for you to get in touch with the idea of how to unconditionally love yourself and then attract a person or persons who would want to interact with you.

But this is bringing up issues for you that are allowing you to get in touch with programmings and things that have been implanted within you since childhood.

You have attracted a person that you love so much but is rejecting you is because you have an issue with rejection.

• He is helping you to realize it because that’s what you need to become whole.

Yes. If that individual did not point that out to you, you would be acting in a relationship in what you typically call a dysfunctional manner, having someone who was only there to reinforce all the things that don’t represent the way you actually want to be as a whole person.

So, it is serving you to have someone do this to you at this time because it’s putting you squarely in touch with an issue that you need to integrate in order to become more holistic and therefore the relationship is working perfectly because that’s what relationships are for.

He is actually being a friend even though he may not know it.

The paradox is: as you get in touch with the energy that is being pointed out to you, it is possible that once there is no longer a reason for that energy to be sent to you that way because you’ve integrated it, you might change.

But don’t expect it because again, it won’t matter whether it’s him or not. The idea is that you will become a more whole vibration. You will thus automatically attract all situations that are more reflective and more representative of the whole vibration you are being.

Remember, if you believe negatively that you need someone else in order to be more complete, then you only attract individuals to reflect to you your belief in your incompleteness.

It doesn’t mean that you cannot learn and grow new ways and new things in a relationship. But the paradox is is that you have to allow yourself to know you are whole fundamentally in order to attract someone who can be willing to reflect back to you the willingness to work toward the recognition of that wholeness.

Asker: I’ve I’ve known this intellectually. I get this coming to get it experiential.

Bashar: If you have not known it intellectually and experientially both, you have not yet known it. Allow yourself to know you haven’t known it because that will remove a big burden off your shoulders thinking that just because you’ve got it intellectually you are supposed to understand it on all other levels all at once. You know it or you don’t know it. And that’s all there is to it. And if you don’t know it, let it be all right to say, you know, I don’t know this. I don’t get it yet, but I will. It’s all right to not know. Most of you will actually paradoxically find that most of your troubles would vanish overnight if you would just let yourselves be all right with saying, “I don’t know this stuff.” Then you would stop working so hard at thinking that you’re supposed to. And then you would just live. And then just by living the experiences you have when you’re in that kind of open honest state would actually allow you to know more than you know.

To learn to love yourself unconditionally enough to allow what is going on in your life to be all right as it is. So that what is going on in your life as it is can be transformed by you into a way that is more reflective of your knowing self. You understand?

Asker: I believe so.

You don’t let what is, however it’s happening, be all right, be the thing that needs to be happening, be what it is, and learn from it in the positive way you want to by assigning a positive reality meaning to it. So that regardless of anyone else’s intention toward you, the only effect you will get out of it will be the positive impact of the meaning you have assigned to what is going on. Because you have to know fundamentally that what is going on is there to help you learn to love yourself as unconditionally as the infinite.

Asker: Everything you have just heard you have said to yourself. It’s up to you to decide whether you believe it or not. Is there a place that you are most excited to be?

Asker: I am looking for a new place to live and I’ve been confused as to what I want.

Bashar: Perhaps because you are not looking in the place that really excites you the most. Is there a place, a position, a local on your planet that you would rather live live on the planet? Is that too big for you?

Asker: Well, I’m really focusing on my acting career and everything feel like I need to be here.

Bashar: Here is Los Angeles. The idea is that there are many different realities even in the city that you call your city of angels, right? Are you looking in the area that is reflective of your joy and your preference? Or are you, how do you say it, making do?

Asker: I’ve been making do for Where would you prefer to be?

Bashar: Where you resonate? Where does your heart, your joy, your creativity resonate?

Asker: On a sound stage.

Bashar: Then we’ll build on the theater. You know what I’m asking?

Asker: Yes. In terms of what you might call your residence, is there any particular local that you prefer in your city of angels more than any other? And are you looking in that local?

Asker: Well, I’m enjoying living and I’m not Is that your place of highest excitement? I don’t know where my place I don’t think I’ve fully known or experienced where I see.

Bashar: Then we have a homework assignment for you. Take time and enjoy it in the taking.

Sit down, moment of pause, and allow yourself to discover where in the city is the most exciting place.

And be open without expectation to allowing yourself to suddenly realize that the place you would find most exciting to live might not fit any of your expectations.

But if it is the most exciting, moving in that direction is what will unexpectedly allow you to fulfill anything else in your life that represents your highest joy and excitement.

For again, without expectation.

Many times circumstances and situations that excite you—you don’t have to necessarily assume that just because they excite you right now and pull you in a certain direction, that it means any particular thing in terms of how it is that that must ultimately play out.

Just by making that move in that direction.

So if you find yourself all of a sudden being excited, for example, to go look somewhere even outside the limits of your city, but that really is the most exciting thing—go and take a look.

Don’t be resistant to the excitement because of your assumption that you can’t do that, because you think it means that you have to go live there.

The fact that you may be being pulled in that direction by your excitement may simply mean that you only have to spend a day being in that energy.

And that may all of a sudden unexpectedly allow you to run into the most unusual people at the right place in the right time that you never would have met.

That may in fact be the easiest path of least resistance and least effort in opening the door to the other things that excite you in life.

Because it is excitement that is connected. It is excitement that is representative of your path, not the surface details of what you think are supposed to be connected.

Asker: The vibrational frequency that’s been uh raising in my body. Yes. And uh um I I find it very difficult to assimilate in my body and I’m I’m not that’s because there is resistance to yourself, right?

Bashar: Resistance to loving yourself. You are in that sense creating a dichotomy. You want to express more of who and what you are but you are afraid to because of how you define the idea that that’s connected to pain. Redefine. Redefine. You are an actor. Become the part you prefer to play. You are on the stage right now.