Transforming Core Beliefs

The Purpose of Physical Reality

You as a unique expression of creation are equal to every other expression of creation, but of course you are unique. Your world has a certain kind of overall experience of reality.

You have a different kind of experience of physical reality than any other world that might also have chosen to experience physical reality. And the uniqueness of your experience of physical reality is one of the reasons why our civilization and others are very interested in what is going on on your planet at this time, because you are going through great transformations of Consciousness, great transformations of understanding, expansion and awareness that bring you to a point where you are beginning to remember who and what you are more and more as an aspect of the infinite, as an aspect of a multi-dimensional creation.

And so that memory that is now coming back to you after generations and generations of forgetfulness is what is resulting in your age of awareness, age of transition, age of transformation—what you call your new age on your planet. This remembering thus means that you’re not really learning anything new; you are simply recalling what it is as a spirit you have always known. Now is the time on your planet when this is possible, when it is more available to more of you than it has ever been before in your history for a long time as you count time.

To exist in experiencing your physiological reality, one that has imposed upon itself a great degree of limitation, a great degree of forgetfulness, a great degree of the experience of disconnection from the infinite—you have created a very unique experience of learning to discover the light coming out of great darkness. And this is a very powerful thing to have chosen. One of the reasons why many beings are so interested in observing what is going on on your planet today with regard to the transition and transformation of awareness is that you have imposed upon yourself in the past such great degree of limitation and yet still managed to arrive at a point out of all of that forgetfulness where you are now remembering that you are beings of light.

And the ability to do that is an indication of how strong you are. And also to other beings that may be going through their own transitions and transformations in other civilizations, seeing in you your ability to find the light even after having imposed such a great darkness and limitation and forgetfulness upon yourself means that nothing is impossible. If you can do it, anyone can do it. So you are great teachers in that sense for all beings in creation, and you are great teachers of yourselves to pull yourself through that kind of experience. And we are deeply appreciative and grateful for your willingness to experience that and create for yourself a unique manifestation of self-discovery and reawakening.

In the creation of this unique experience of disconnection, an experience of forgetfulness, you have created as a way of experiencing physical reality unique personality structures.

The Three Components of Personality

A personality structure is composed of three main components.

You clothe yourself in this personality as a spirit.

You take on this mask called personality which is basically composed of:

1. beliefs and definitions [samskaras]
2. emotions and feelings
3. thoughts and actions or behavior if you will

These three components form your physical persona, your physical self, physical personality. This how you identify yourselves as physical beings through your personalities.

But these personalities are artificial constructs created by you in order to experience the idea of space-time, of physical reality, of creation in a temporal matrix, in a space-time continuum idea.

As Spirit, things can manifest instantaneously.

But as physical beings, you can actually observe and experience the process of creation itself.

And so in order to have that experience, you get into your personality diving suit and you dive deep down into physical materiality, crystallizing your idea of yourselves into solid matter.

By creating this personality, you can thus then experience the concept called physical reality, always maintaining of course a link back to your spiritual self, your higher self, your oversoul self.

When you create this physical personality, when you crystallize this physical persona, it will of course take on the attributes in general of the general agreement and contracts you have agreed to abide by generally speaking for the idea of the experience and exploration of physical reality.

When those physical personas are crystallized, are solidified, they take on certain attributes, certain patterns that represent the idea of the physical reality you have agreed to explore.

In taking on those attributes and taking on those patterns—such as self-imposed limitations, the concept of forgetfulness, the experience of disconnection, experiences of emotionality, of thoughts and physiological behavior—when you take those on, it can create experiences that will lead you through processes that bring you back always, will bring you back to yourself, to an awareness and an awakening to your true self.

But in that process, because by definition it may contain elements of forgetfulness so that you can explore physical reality in the unique way you have chosen to, there may be moments that are experienced as difficult, painful, fearful, doubtful.

And so this interaction, this day of your time, is designed specifically to aid and assist you in this journey, in this process you have chosen for yourself called physical life, to let you know that it does not have to be experienced in a painful way, that you can still face all your challenges, that you can still explore all your themes, all the ideas you wish to learn, all the lessons you desired to learn—you chose to learn as a spirit, as a soul, by exploring physical reality—but experience those things, learn those lessons, face those challenges in an exciting way rather than a painful way. That you can transform the darkest dark into the brightest light. That you have the ability to do that.

Even in your forgetfulness, you still have the ability. And that you have created for yourself a family of guides, a family of soul friends such as ourselves and others, that are always willing to remind you who you really are and give you suggestions for what tools may assist you in your self-chosen journey of self-discovery.

So that it can be recognized now at this time on your planet as something that can generate excitement, so that you can face the challenges of the unraveling and revealing of yourself in a way that is constructive and creative and loving and beneficial to yourself and all concerned. So that your lives can now become ecstatic explosions of synchronicity and manifestation.

All this is possible and always has been. But you have, in creating self-imposed limitation, self-imposed forgetfulness, self-imposed experiences of disconnection from the all, you have created also a forgetfulness that it has always been available to you. And we and others and yourselves are now capable of working together to remind you to remember, to literally RE-MEMBER who you are—to put yourselves back together instead of experiencing yourselves in a fragmented way.

You can still experience physical reality, but you don’t have to experience it to the degree of segregation and fragmentation and separation and disconnection that you have experienced for thousands of years on your planet. You are free to be free at this time, free to be more of who you really are.

The Illusion of Disconnection

You can never really be disconnected from All-That-Is. You merely experience a disconnection.

You can never be outside because there is no outside. You can never be really disconnected because everything is actually one thing expressing itself and experiencing itself as a multitude of things within it.

But every separate thing—every person, place and thing, every separate idea, everything that appears to be separate—only appears to be so. It is an illusion of separation that you use as a tool to experience physical reality, the idea called physical reality.

But there is no physical reality outside of you. It is all in that sense a projection from you, through you. And thus then, as you go into this new age of awareness, you begin to awaken more and more every day in every way to the fact that there is no real separation between what you appear to experience around you and who you are within. And as you change yourself, you see what is around you change in the same way that as you look into a glass mirror, you see the reflection back of whatever is actually on your face—be a frown or a smile.

But remember, the reflection in the mirror will not change, cannot change, until you decide to either smile or frown first. But when you do, the reflection will have no choice but to match what is on your face. It does not have a mind of its own, it does not have a reality of its own—you give it life, you give it birth, you support it and perpetuate whatever the reflection is. It is up to you to decide who you will see in that mirror, what you will experience yourself to be.

But not because do not change—because you want to change the reflection. Smile not because it’s important to see the smile in the mirror. Smile because it feels good to do so, because that’s what you choose to do, because that’s who you choose to be. Don’t wait for the mirror to reflect it back. Smile first because that’s who you are.

The Core Principle: Life is Meaningless

Physical reality is the product of what you believe, what you’ve been taught to believe most strongly is going to be true about that reality, about your experiences in it, in all situations and circumstances that you may attract or generate in your life.

How you experience those situations and those circumstances is completely reliant on how you define your relationship to that situation, to that circumstance, to that person, to that issue.

One of the greatest gifts which creation has given to all things within creation is: life is meaningless.

Nothing comes with built-in meaning automatically.

All situations, circumstances, things in life are neutral, devoid of any built-in meaning.

They are neutral props, symbols. You give them the meaning either automatically, unconsciously, or intentionally by choice.

The meaning you assign to any given situation, circumstance, person, place or thing completely determines the effect you get from that situation, circumstance, person, place or thing.

They are devoid of meaning so that you are capable of being the creator of your reality and deciding and choosing what meaning to give those circumstances and thus determining what effect you get from the circumstance, no matter how it looks.

The same circumstance can give you a positive or a negative effect, a positive or a negative experience. If you learn to put positive meaning into a circumstance for you, if your relationship to that circumstance is defined by you as positive, you will only get a positive effect from it, regardless of what anyone else’s intention in that situation might be toward you. This is the third law of creation: what you put out is what you get back again. Like the mirror—if you frown, you cannot see a smile in the reflection. If you smile, you cannot see a frown.

If you learn that life is basically meaningless so that it’s up to you with your free will, your choice, your freedom to choose, so that you put the meaning into it that serves you best, then you will understand that being meaningless is the greatest gift life could give you, so that you can determine how you will experience life with your capacity to be a co-creator with All-That-Is, to define your reality in a way that makes it uniquely your own. So that you can experience reality in the way you prefer to, in a way that you believe is aligned with your truth, your true self. And in so doing, magically and miraculously and effortlessly, find yourself in a life of harmony, creativity, love, synchronicity. And recognize at that moment then that that is the way life can be if you define it as such.

The Blueprint: Beliefs, Emotions, and Behaviors

Physical reality is the product of your core belief, your core definition—what you have been taught to believe is true, is possible for you, what you have been taught to define your relationship to life as.

When you adopt the physical persona, you may unknowingly adopt certain ideas, definitions and concepts that will bring about a kind of fog of forgetfulness once you’re in physical reality and not allow you to remember that you chose that reality, number one, and number two, may allow you to harbor some of the definitions and beliefs that create your reality in an unconscious way so that you may not even be in touch with the fact of how it is that the things that are going on in your life are occurring.

But a belief must be self-sustaining in order for you to actually have an experience in reality of that belief.

That’s why many times it’s very difficult to adopt a new belief or to even know there is another belief to adopt, because every belief in some sense is exclusive of every other belief, so that you can focus on the reality that belief is designed to generate to the exclusion of any other interference from any other reality, any other perspective, or any other idea.

However, knowing this is a belief unto itself as well. And when you finally get to the point of realization that there can be such a thing as a belief in other beliefs and a belief in an ability to change from one belief to another, then you have discovered the key that unlocks you from any particular belief and allows you to experience beliefs in a conscious way and experience your reality and your life in an aware manner that allows you the flexibility and the freedom to choose what kind of reality you will experience based on the knowledge and the certainty that as you get in touch with what you believe—that is creating your reality—you can easily get in touch with other beliefs and you can replace the belief you don’t prefer with one that you do, and thus generate a reality that is more in alignment with your preference.

This is all simple physics, that’s all it is. It’s all energy, it’s all emotion, it’s all vibration. And whatever vibration you give off utterly determines the kind of experience you will get in physical reality, because there is no physical reality aside from what you believe it to be—that’s what physical reality is. Even many of your own scientists, your quantum physicists, are now beginning to realize that there is no outside external physical reality that is different or apart from or separate from what it is you choose to observe about it. Paradoxical, yes, but that’s all right. When you’re working with Paradox, you’re truly working with the core power of your being. That’s what Paradox tells you.

When things seem totally opposite, mutually exclusive, and yet you have both of them at the same time creating a paradox, what that tells you is both of those apparently mutually opposite and exclusive things still must generate from somewhere within you, somewhere in the center. They both issue from the same place. And when you can see them both equally and experience the idea called Paradox, then what that tells you is you’re sitting squarely at the center of your being and capable of observing both sides and thus bringing both sides into absolute balance. So work with paradox. Paradox is your friend. Paradox lets you know you are where you need to be. You are finally realizing and becoming aware of the fact that you are creating the polarity, that you are creating the dichotomy, that you are in charge of that experience, that it’s coming through you from you.

The House Analogy: Beliefs as Blueprint

Belief—getting in touch with belief, getting in touch with definitions that then generate your reality—is what it is all about because that’s the first component. Look at it this way. Look at this analogy:

Building a house on your planet requires a design, a blueprint, to let you know what the house ought to look like. It requires builders to build the house, and it requires building materials. So your belief systems, your definitions, are like the blueprints. Your emotions are like the builders of the house, and your thoughts and behaviors are like the building materials.

So if you have a blueprint, if you have a belief, if you have a definition that isn’t quite drawn right—looks a little crooked, looks a little wonky, looks a little out of phase, out of step—you cannot expect the builders to then understand how to build the house properly, and you cannot necessarily expect them to use building materials that are of high quality if they’re not getting an accurate blueprint of what it is they need to use to begin with.

So if you are using belief systems that are out of alignment with your true self, then the emotions and the energy that comes to you that takes the belief and manifests it into physical reality—thoughts and behaviors—are going to only be able to take their cue from the original blueprint. And the quality of those building materials and the energy of those builders are only going to be capable of building a house that might lean to one side or fall down relatively quickly and come apart at the seams.

When that happens, do what every builder does: go back to the original blueprint and say, “Are the specs on the blueprint what they need to be in order to manifest a good build with good building materials and happy builders? Are we calling out the correct materials to be used? Are we saying they go together this way and not that way? Are we saying this is the procedure—step one, two, three—or is it backwards—three, two, one?” You must lay all that out first in your blueprint and in your procedural charts in order to know that you at least have a good chance of having builders that can follow the blueprint and use building materials that will result in a house that will stand strong and be a beautiful place for you to live.

This is a direct analogy to how you create your physical reality. And if there is something going on in your house that seems to be falling apart, that doesn’t seem to work, that isn’t comfortable, and if the builders seem to be somewhat grumpy and surly and complaining about the job as being too difficult and not coming together properly, and they’re not getting paid enough and they’re not getting time off—go back to the charts, go back to the blueprint, go back to the master plan and say, “All right, how does this master plan need to be rearranged so that this will be an efficient, happy, perfect, creative build, and that true materials, good materials, strong materials will be chosen so that the house will stand strong and be a beautiful and comfortable place to live?”

Always go back to the blueprint. Always go back to the master plan. And in this case, the master plan is your innate definitions of life, your innate definitions of who you are in relation to life, to your experience, to the things that happen in your reality, in your experience of it. If there is something going on that doesn’t resonate right with you, that isn’t comfortable, that rubs you the wrong way, find out what your definition is of your relationship to it, of who you’ve been taught to define yourself to be in relation to this experience, in order to find out why you feel like you do.

The Connection Between Emotion and Belief

This is very critical: even as we just laid out this analogy, one thing leads to another. The builders will not buy the building material until they know the blueprint is in place.

You cannot have a feeling in life, you cannot have an emotional response or reaction to anything that happens in your life without first having a definition about that thing.

So if you’re having emotional experiences that you don’t prefer, you don’t want to disown them, you don’t want to shun them, you don’t want to shove them in a closet, you don’t want to deny them, you don’t want to gloss them over. You want to know why they’re there. You want to accept them, you want to acknowledge them, you want to own them, because you cannot change what you do not own. If you say, “No, no, no, this has nothing to do with me,” then you are giving your power away to change them. Learn from them, examine them, explore them.

If you are feeling a certain way about something, know that that’s the result of something you believe to be true, something you’re defining to be true. Go back to the blueprint. Find out, “What do I have to believe is true in order to feel this way about this thing?”

There’s a difference—a big difference—between simply observing in a neutral way that something is so and reacting to it in an emotional way as if it actually had anything to do with your truth. Big difference. You can recognize when people might be out of alignment with their integrity, you can recognize when someone might be taking a negative approach to something, but you don’t need to be affected in a negative way by that if you know that your definition says that what they’re doing has nothing to do with you, or nothing to do with you in a way that is in any way negative.

Always give it a positive meaning. Always look at the situation as an opportunity for you to get some positive effect, some positive lesson, some positive experience out of the situation, regardless of what their intention may be. You can transform and turn around anything into something that will work for you, will benefit you, and thus conversely will actually be more capable of benefiting everyone involved if they choose to be benefited by it, by doing the same thing—of putting a positive meaning into what’s going on.

The Four Main Tools: Desire, Definition, Dedication, Detachment

We will get more deeply into this in a moment and explore the idea of exactly how these definitions result in the reality that you experience, so that you can get a handle on this toolkit. Take the toolkit with you and apply it in every single circumstance and situation you believe it’s necessary to apply it in, to make the changes that you want in your reality, that you prefer to have an experience of.

But first and most importantly perhaps, we would like to form a foundation for this idea, for this understanding this day of your time. And we would like to introduce this foundation with an old joke on your planet. Some of you may know it, some of you may not, but it illustrates the point we need to make first and foremost before we go deeper.

The old joke on your planet goes something like this: “How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?” The answer, as you’ve defined it, is: “Only one, but the light bulb has to want to change.”

That’s the key to what we are talking about here. All the tools we are going to share with you today are just tools. If you don’t want to apply them, if you are resistant to applying them, they will only be as effective as you are willing to use them. If you don’t want to change, that’s up to you. You will not be judged for that. But we are simply underscoring and underlying that the important first, number one tool is that when dealing with core beliefs, when dealing with these deep-seated definitions, you really have to want to get to the bottom of what they are. You really have to apply these tools in order to see the result.

Now they can be effective to greater and lesser degree, but to really allow them to be as effective as they possibly can for you at any given moment, the first component is a deep and overriding desire—a passionate desire for change in your life, to know that there are things, situations, circumstances, experiences that you are learning to define as not preferable.

Now this is not the same as judgment in a negative sense. Again, you can simply neutrally observe that something is simply not the preferred vibration without judging it to be of any less value or merit or worth as an experience.

The key to letting go and detaching from beliefs that don’t serve you is again, paradoxically, to validate them as beliefs, to validate them as equal experiences to anything you could have. When you allow all choices to be equal, then you are not putting undue charge on anything more than anything else. And when everything is equal, you are then empowered to choose the experience out of all those equal choices that you prefer, without invalidating, putting a charge on, judging to be less than any other belief.

Remember, whatever beliefs you may have had in the past, as you say, are what brought you to this point. They are stepping stones. And without those stepping stones, you would not be where you are. So if you’re going to go on to the next stepping stone, you cannot invalidate any of the stepping stones you may be on right now, or there will be no place to step to the next stone. The entire path has to be valid. You cannot harbor a belief that you have wasted your life, wasted time with invalid beliefs. You cannot have that belief and then also simultaneously maintain a capacity to move on to something you prefer, because you are removing the foundation from under your very feet of what brought you to that point by invalidating the path you have walked to that moment.

You must validate the totality of yourself if you really want to expand into further totality, further experience of your totality.

The Four Components in Detail

So out of the four main components that we are going to use, the four main tools we are going to lay down as a foundation for this workshop, for this transmission, for this information:

1. DESIRE

The desire to change, the desire to explore yourself, the desire to get in touch with those beliefs no matter what, no matter how fearful, uncomfortable some of them may seem. The desire must be overriding if this is going to be as effective as you would really like it to be. If you really want to make a lasting change and build a strong house, comfortably, beautifully, long-lasting—desire first and foremost.

2. DEFINITION

You must get in touch with those definitions, if they be unconscious. And we will discuss different ideas about how to do that, bring them to the surface of your awareness so they can be dealt with, so they can be examined, so they can be transformed.

3. DEDICATION

Dedication is a firm commitment to change. Not just the desire, but a firm commitment that you are a being of growth, that you will behave that way, that you will act that way in thought, word, and deed with others, with yourself. Dedication to change, dedication to knowing yourself, dedication to exploration.

4. DETACHMENT

Detachment from the things that don’t serve you. Detachment again, not meant in a negative judgmental way, but a letting go, a dropping of the baggage of things that have nothing to do with you—the true you, the you you prefer to be.

So through this interaction this day of your time, we will be discussing, we will be addressing, and we will be working with the desire to define your dedication to detach. That is what you will be doing and turning into one act with all these components. One act: your desire to define your dedication to detach from that which does not serve you, from that which does not serve anyone else. Because if you are not you, how can you be of service to anyone? If you are being something you’re not, then you are not there to be of service to anyone. If you do not help yourself become your true self, it is not going to be really possible for you—the real you—to be of help to anyone else.

So not in a selfish way, but in a self-supporting way, you must desire to define your dedication to detach from things that don’t serve you and don’t serve others. Because if you are not being you, you cannot serve as your true self. You always serve in some way shape or form, but we’re talking about conscious awareness of this, bringing it to the forefront where you know you have freedom of choice, where you are making the choices that are in alignment with your true self, where you know what your true self is, where you know what your preferred vibration is, and where you act on that with absolute dedication and certainty, with passion and clarity, and become one act of creation that constantly manifests more and more of who you really are.

Desire: The First Component

So let us get into the first component: DESIRE.

Now if you will look for a moment at the diagram you have in front of you that is simply the two lists of words—those things that are essential for you to maintain your existence in physical reality, along with other things that are somewhat essential, not all to survive or perpetuate your physical reality, to function correctly so to speak in physical reality.

Now on the second list, not everything is absolutely necessary. Obviously, you can have sight, but you don’t need to have sight to function in physical reality. You can hear, but you don’t need to hear to function in physical reality. However, on the top list, those things that are on that top list—in order to survive in physical reality, you need to do. You need to breathe, you need to drink, you need to eat generally speaking. We understand there are ways to transform these things, but that’s not what we’re talking about right now. We’re talking about the basic agreements you made in choosing to experience the idea called physical reality, the basic general agreements you made with everyone else as to what would be generally defined as true in order to actually play the physical reality experience game.

So that if you were to stop any of those, that would be your way out of the game. You stop breathing, you stop drinking, you stop eating long enough, you’re no longer playing the physical reality game. You go back into spirit and then you can decide what to do from there—whether to play the physical reality game again or do something else—up to you. Nevertheless, while you are in physical reality, the top list are the things that are necessary in the same way that diving deep into your ocean requires that you use specific breathing apparatus or you will not be able to survive, you will not be able to do it. You must have the breathing apparatus.

So then, one thing we wish you to notice most importantly is that there is one word on both lists that is common: DREAM. Now that may not seem like an absolutely essential thing to do to survive or to function, but it is.

On the survival level, your own scientists have discovered through what you call sleep experiments that you can allow an individual to sleep as much as they want, but if they don’t dream, if they’re not allowed to dream, they will very soon go psychotic. They will not be able to survive, they will not be able to function. They will actually have a neurological breakdown. If you allow an individual to dream but don’t allow them other levels of sleep, they may be very tired and may not be able to function very well, but they will continue to maintain their understanding and their cognizance in life. But without the dreaming, you will not survive and you will not function.

And without the dreaming, even in the metaphorical sense, without the idea of dreaming, of vision, of passion in your life, you will find that your existence in that sense will operate at a level that will be relatively monotonous, monotonal.

So dreaming connects to desire, passion—the first element. You can see that is absolutely essential both for your survival and your continued functioning in the game of physical reality.

Desire: Nothing gets in your way. Nothing stops you. You know the vibration of what you prefer and you will do what it takes, within your integrity, to manifest whatever is representative of your preferred vibration in life. An overwhelming desire and overwhelming, unstoppable passion to be who you know deep down in your heart of hearts you really truly are.

That level of passion, of drive, of persistence about being yourself is paramount in changing core beliefs. Because only with that kind of drive, only with that kind of fiery passion, can you burn away the things that don’t belong. Can you tunnel down deeply enough into your psyche to find the things there that may have been buried long buried by what you were taught as children. To discover them, to identify them, to recreate them. Passion is the crucible that melts down, that dissolves the crystalline pattern you adopted when you chose to be born and allows you to recrystallize yourself.

Paradoxically once again, passion is both the fire and the water. It is both the heat and the ice. It is both that which dissolves the old and recrystallizes the new. Passion, the unbridled expression of your true vibration, your true frequency, shining like a light, allowing yourself the freedom of expression of who you are with integrity.

Knowing that you can express, that you are free to express, that you are free to explore, that you are free to choose, that you are excited about who you are, excited to discover more of who you are.

Why? Why? Why not? You don’t need another reason. You don’t need another reason. Anytime you come to a “why,” turn it into a “why not.” Allow yourself the opportunity to choose what you believe is true, while at the same time allowing others to choose what they believe is true for themselves, no matter what it is.

If you want the freedom to choose for yourself, the only way to reinforce that in yourself is to give others the freedom to choose what they believe is true for themselves as well. Acting holistically, not compartmentally. Passion dissolves barriers, passion breaks down walls, passion melts, liquefies, allows things to flow. Malleable, flexible, formable—flexibility, adaptability. All of these are the elements of true passion, of true expression of your key signature vibration.

So passion—passion for your life, passion for your experience, passion for who you are, passion for the universe, passion to be alive in whatever way shape or form it may come, passion to receive, passion to give, passion to be true to yourself, true thus to others, true to All-That-Is as best as you can. And again, no judgment, no judgment. Just do your best—that’s all you need to do in life.

Every single one of you, every single one of you has the same mission in life, the same purpose in life. You may not all have the same expression of that mission, you may not have the same expression of that purpose, but you all have the same mission, you all have the same purpose, and that is to be yourself as fully as you can. That’s it. No fine print, no further clauses, no complicated rules and regulations. That’s it. That’s the contract you signed when you chose to be physical—to be yourself as best you can, as fully as you can, whatever that means to you.

So the passion to discover more of who you are is what will allow you to truly fulfill your purpose and your mission in life: to be the unique facet of All-That-Is you were created to be and that you choose to be. How you choose to express that is up to you—that’s your free will. Your destiny is to be you in all the ways it’s possible to be you. Your free will is to be that you in all the ways you prefer to be that you. Your freedom to choose how to be the you you prefer to be, the you you were created to be—up to you.

Destiny and free will go hand in hand. Destiny is the theme you are exploring, and explore it you will. Free will gives you the right and the ability to choose how you will explore that theme in what way that is unique to the being you are creating yourself to be, to the personality you choose to be in this experience of yourself. Up to you. Totally free. No judgment. No real limitations other than what you have imposed upon yourselves. And no real parameters other than the four laws of creation.

The Four Laws of Creation

1. You exist.

Can’t change that. It’s a law. And I don’t mean laws of physics like the speed of light—those things can change depending upon local conditions.

I mean the law, capital L. The law is something that never varies, never changes. Number one: you exist. You will never ever change that. You can change how you exist, where you exist, when you exist, what you exist as, how you experience your existence, but you exist. And so you always have and always will, because existence only knows one quality: isness. What is, is. Here, now. That’s it.

2. The one is the all, the all are the one.

Can’t change that. You are both individual and collective. There is a one, there is an All-That-Is, and there are all the individual components it created itself to be. But they are the same in different ways, from different perspectives. The one is the all, the all are the one, because there is no outside. There is nothing else. If there is only here and now, if there is only isness, then anything you experience as different than any other thing must simply be the same thing from a different point of view, because there is only one moment in which there is only one existence of one thing, and that one thing can experience itself as many things from different perspectives, but all of that’s happening now, all at once.

3. What you put out is what you get back.

4. Everything changes except the first 3 laws.

Everything changes—change is the only constant except the first three laws.

So that’s it. Every experience in every dimension of every universe everywhere, every when, is based on those four laws. We have never found at this point a fifth. Not yet. We are not saying we are all-knowing because we are not. We don’t know what we don’t know. But we have not yet found any other laws that govern existence in any way that we’ve discovered it. So we share that with you now.

In that way, what that means is everything else is up to you. You’re that free, you’re that powerful, to be who you prefer to be. Because the only things you must do is exist, be a part of the one and the all, get back what you put out, and constantly change. That’s all you have to do.

That’s all you must do. That’s the only thing you cannot change. Everything else is up to you. You are that free. You are that unlimited. Any limitations you experience in that sense are self-imposed for your own purposes, for your own reasons, for your own exploration, for your own challenges, for your own growth, for your own lessons, for your own fun—or for your own misery, if that’s what turns you on.

Definition: The Second Component

And that brings us to a very important point—item two: DEFINITIONS.

Desire to find the definitions that give rise to your experience of reality, to find the core belief that determines how you experience your reality, what you experience your reality to be.

Definition—the blueprint.

When we mention the idea of people choosing misery, we were not being factitious. If you find yourself experiencing misery—and we know how strange this sounds in your language—it’s because you are choosing it for your own purpose, for your own reasons, because of your definitions.

Allow us to explain. Every single one of you without exception—“Oh, what about me?"—you too. Every single one of you only has two motivations for everything you do. It’s really one motivation, but it’s broken into two ideas. And I guarantee you, you all do this and you always will do this. And this is the only motivation you will ever use to make any choices you ever have made, are making, or will make.

You will always choose what you believe points you in the direction of more pleasure, and you will always move away from what you believe represents more pain. You will always move toward pleasure and away from pain. Always. Always without fail. That’s how you’re designed. That’s how you survive.

Now here in lies the key: you will always choose what you define as more pleasurable and less painful. And that’s the key. Because obviously, many of you experience painful things. Well, if we’re always choosing pleasure, how come we experience pain? Because you define the thing that is painful as more pleasurable than the alternative. That’s the key.

Definitions have been attached to the painful thing that actually make it seem like the more pleasurable choice than the alternative. There may be so much fear attached to the alternative—even though intellectually you may know it will be beneficial for you—there may be so much fear based on definitions you’ve attached to that thing that it would actually seem more painful to choose that than what is already being chosen that is painful, because the pain you’re in is familiar and maybe less fearful than the pain you don’t know might come up.

The unknown—most of you attach in many ways definitions to the concept of the unknown that are actually so fear-inducing that they override the fear and the pain you might have in something else. And you will always move toward the thing that is, in your terms, the lesser of the two pains. So your choices may be pain and more pain, but if it’s less pain than this, that will seem like pleasure and you will move toward it and keep doing it and keep choosing it until you get a handle on why you are defining the thing you say might be beneficial in a painful way.

Because you can know intellectually, as you say, that something might be more beneficial. But as long as you’ve attached a primary definition, a core belief, to that thing that says it will be more painful than what you’re already doing, you’ll stay put. Believe me. But also believe this: as soon as you change the definition, you will move in that direction instantly. As soon as this alternative becomes more pleasurable in your definition than what you’ve been doing that’s painful, you will instantly drop what you’ve been doing and do the new thing instantly. Because your motivation always works that way. But it’s got to be based on clarity of how you define these things in your life.

That’s why definition and clarity about your definition is so critical, so important. Getting in touch with the definition—identifying, identification of belief is very critical. Because as soon as you identify a belief, it’s gone. It’s disempowered. It becomes transparent—unless, yes, you have a stronger belief that says it’s not. And if you have a stronger belief that says identifying a belief does not disempower it, then that belief is a core belief, a fundamental foundational belief, and you need to get in touch with why you would believe that to be true.

But you see, one leads to the other. When you examine yourself in this way, when you begin to explore your beliefs in this way, one leads to another. It becomes a logical progression of exploration, and you automatically dive deeper and deeper and deeper into the definitions. When you find one definition, if you keep doing the same thing, then there’s another definition at work. And that tells you—your behavior tells you, your feelings tell you—there is still a definition at work that’s out of alignment with you, out of alignment with your truth, out of alignment with your preference. Find out what it is by asking yourself, once again, the all-encompassing and penetrating question:

“What would I have to believe is true? What do I imagine I would have to believe is true about me or this situation in order for this to still be an experience I don’t prefer?”

Find out what it is. Define, define, define until you find the true underlying, fundamental, foundational core belief that supports all the other beliefs above it. But when you do find that core belief and you identify that one, you will have that “aha” moment of release and revelation. And your behavior and your feelings from that moment forward will reflect that discovery, will reflect that realization. You will change. You will choose differently. But it all has to do with how you define your reality, how you define yourself.

Example: Redefining “Habit”

Let us give you an example. Remember, we talk about you being free, you being free to choose. You are free to define anything in any way you want. Why? Why not? Because there is no reality outside you. There is no reality other than what you define it to be. But that’s what reality is.

So you are free to choose the definitions, free to choose whatever it is you wish them to be. When you find a definition that doesn’t work for you, when your society has taught you a definition of something that doesn’t quite work for you, you have the ability, you have the power, you have the right, you have the authority—for yourself, not for anyone else—to change the definition of that thing to one that works for you.

Here are some examples we have given in our talks with you from time to time.

Habit. “Well, a habit—yes, I can’t help but keep doing the same thing. I don’t want to keep doing the same thing, but I can’t help it. It’s a habit. It’s a pattern. I’m locked in. It’s a habit.”

All right. But that’s just the definition. It’s not empirically true. You can redefine a habit, if you wish, in a way that will work for you in a more positive and constructive way. Here’s an example: instead of defining a habit as something you can’t help do no matter how hard you try, you could choose to define a habit in the way we have chosen. Now, that’s our choice—it’s up to you—but here’s what works for us:

A habit is something you do that you don’t know you’re doing. Once you know you’re doing it, it’s not a habit—it’s a choice.

Oh! A habit is something you do that you don’t know you’re doing. Once you become aware of it, it’s no longer a habit, it’s a choice. And that brings you back to, “Well, why would I keep choosing it?” Motivation, definition—see, now you’re back in the driver’s seat. As soon as you’ve defined it as something that means you are choosing, then the knowledge that you’re making a choice puts you back in control, puts you back in the driver’s seat, gives you a choice to change it.

But as long as you define a habit in a way that it’s out of your control—you can’t help it, you can’t do anything about it, you are not in charge, you’re not owning it, you’re not making a choice consciously—you’re just saying, “I can’t help it.”

And here’s a further explanation of the secret of defining a habit in the way we have just shared with you. Many people also have a definition on your planet that when you then even discover that you have a habit, “Oh all right, now I do know I have a habit. Now that I know I have a habit, I must begin a long process of figuring out how to change the habit.”

We’re not going to take that away from you—we know how much fun that can be.

The processes you go through in life may in fact have validity for you. So we are not judging it. Don’t shun it.

However, there’s an alternative. You can understand this definition: a habit is something you do that you don’t know you’re doing.

So when you know you’re doing it, it’s no longer a habit. What that means is identifying a habit is the end of the process of no longer having it, not the beginning. When you become aware you have it, and it’s no longer a habit, it’s not there anymore. It’s gone. It’s vanished. It’s transparent. Identification is the end of the process, not the beginning.

You’ve already been processing when it comes into your awareness. When you suddenly realize you do have the habit, that means you already have been processing to the point where it now went from an unconscious act to a conscious awareness. And when it became a conscious awareness, as soon as it became a conscious awareness, you arrived at the end of the process and you no longer have the habit. It’s gone. From that point forward, it’s a choice. And again, it puts you right back in control because now, if you understand it’s a choice to keep doing the same thing over and over again that you don’t want to do, that begs the question, “Why would I do that?” It suddenly makes no sense. And when it makes no sense, your curiosity and imagination just have to find out why you would keep choosing something that makes no sense to choose. And as soon as you engage your curiosity and imagination, you will then have that sharp discovery tool that will drive you into the definitions to find out, “What definitions would I have to have to keep choosing something I say I don’t want to choose?”

And when you find out what that definition is, you will truly then realize you no longer have to keep choosing it. And when you realize you no longer have to keep choosing it, you won’t. You just won’t. Because you won’t be motivated to. And you don’t do anything you’re not motivated to do. As we said, you instantly will change your behavior instantly, as soon as you give yourself a good reason to do so. As soon as you find out what the definition is of something you’ve been doing and you’re motivated to change to something else, you do. You will. You always have, you always will.

You have no problem with motivation. You have no problem with choice. The only difficulty that exists in your life is you’re confused about the definitions that go along with those things. That’s the only thing you really have to clear up. Your mechanism for choosing works fine—obviously you’re making some choice all the time, even if you’re making choices that don’t work for you, you’re still choosing. You don’t have to work on your ability to choose—that’s an automatic given. You don’t have to work on your ability to be motivated. You are absolutely 100% motivated all the time. Even if you’re motivated to do nothing, that’s still motivation. You are still making a choice to do something or not—that’s still a choice. And it’s still based on your motivation of how you define what is aligned with your preference and not.

So you don’t have to worry about working on those abilities. You all have those abilities as a matter of course. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t have an experiential reality at all, because you have to always choose something. You have to choose to believe that something is true in order to have an experience of anything. So if you’re having an experience, then your mechanism of choice and your mechanism of motivation is intact and flawless. And it can’t be otherwise. It’s simply all about the issue of what are you choosing and why. And that gets you down into exploring the big questions: “What would I have to believe is true in order for me to choose this over that?”

And when you really then make that your process, that will be a process of unbridled challenge, excitement, discovery, curiosity, imagination, synchronicity, creativity—or not if you don’t want it to be. But again, it’s your choice always. Everything on every level—again, remember, other than the four laws, everything is your choice. Everything’s up to you. The four laws are the only things you have to do. Everything else, it’s your call as to how you experience the journey, how you experience the process, how you experience the experience. It’s up to you. But that’s what it’s all about—is just the experience. The experience is the experience itself. So you can decide what experience to have, how to have it, by getting in touch with the definitions that give rise to the quality of that experience, based on vibration—out, effect back, Third Law. What you put out, what you get back. Use those laws to your advantage. Use them and these tools that go along with them that you can use as well: the desire to define your dedication to detach from that which does not serve you.

Dedication: The Third Component

You define dedication as a lot of hard work. “Who can be that dedicated? Who can be constantly persistent in something constantly all the time? That’s tiring just thinking about it.”

Dedication is simply to us: when you have no other choice. There is just nothing else you want to choose but this experience, this reality, this vibration, this state of being. If there is no other choice, then you just keep choosing the thing you love to do. What persistence? What patience is needed if you’re constantly just choosing the only choice there is in your sight, in your mind, in your heart? There is no other choice. Dedication is automatic. Commitment is automatic. Depends on how you define it—that’s all.

And once you’ve defined it clearly—if there really is no other choice that makes sense to you—you will then with your motivation just keep choosing the thing you really feel aligned with, and the dedication will be automatic. And that’s really all dedication is: a commitment to yourself. Dedication to be yourself. Dedication to recognize that at any given moment, out of all the things you could possibly choose to do, there is really only one choice at that moment—the thing that is most you.

How do you know the thing that’s most you? It’s usually the thing that contains the highest degree of excitement, joy, creativity, and love, because that is the vibration of your true eternal existence—unconditional love, support, excitement. You experience it in your body as those sensations: happiness, joy, freedom, love. Anything—any situation at any given moment, out of all the options you have available to you at that moment that you could choose from—choose the one you have the best ability to act on that contains the highest joy. And you will always, unfailingly, be squarely in alignment with your true self. And thus in total dedication. And you will never be impatient with whatever is going on at that moment, because you won’t need patience. The only reason you’re impatient is because you think you need patience, but you don’t.

You don’t need patience, because if you simply choose the thing at any given moment that is truly most you and are always choosing that thing, and there is no other choice, what have you got to be patient or impatient about? Whatever is happening in that moment must, by definition, be what needs to happen. Must, by definition, not be an obstacle on your path, but must, by definition, be a part of it. Even if your brain can’t fathom how, it must be. Why? Because you say so. Why not? There is nothing in creation that contradicts you except you. There is nothing that can contradict you but you.

When you say “why” and then “why not,” the only reasons you hear that will refute you, that will argue with you, that will fight against your choice to be you, all come from you. They all come from your beliefs. They all come from your strongest definitions. That’s where they come from. And that’s why it’s so important to get in touch with them, because the definitions that you’re buying into may have been fed to you from others such as your parents and your society. And it may have been true for them, but it doesn’t have to be true for you. It may not even be representative of who you really are.

But you may have needed to buy into them growing up because you needed to, shall we say, agree with your parents in order to be taken care of, in order to survive. But then when you reach the idea of puberty, you begin to recognize, “Wait a minute, I don’t necessarily need to believe what they believe. I can believe what I believe now.” Because of the way you’ve been fed definitions up to that point, in many cases on your planet that realization may come with difficulty and argument and anger and fear and doubt. But it doesn’t have to.

If a true realization is made that at that moment the child is finally at the point where they make the breakthrough realization that the belief systems they’ve been fed up to that point were simply for the point of allowing them to survive to that point, and that they’re not necessarily important from that point forward, and that’s recognized by the parent and the child, then there can be a very constructive, engaging, creative, and loving exchange and exploration of exactly what belief systems the child would feel most aligned with that represent who they truly are. And they can truly be allowed, with constructive and creative guidance, to become the true adult they need to be, to define themselves as who they really are.

It’s a matter of definition. It’s a matter of choice.

Another Example: Redefining “Trust”

Here’s another definition, another name, another label, another idea we hear coming from many of you on your planet all the time: “Oh, it’s an issue of trust. You know, trust, trust, trust. I can’t learn to trust. I can’t trust 100% in my preference all the time. Trusting 100% all the time—oh, that can’t—who can hold on to that 100% of the time? No, no, no, no, no, can’t be done. Such intense concentration that would require, such intense focus, such intense persistence.”

Well, again, it’s the same as dedication. You already know how to trust. Again, if you didn’t trust in something, you wouldn’t be having an experiential reality. It’s not an issue of learning how to trust. It’s an issue of what you’re placing your trust in—that’s all. It is. You don’t have to learn how to trust. You already know how to trust. Trust is part of the mechanism that creates your experiential reality, because you’re trusting that something is true. It’s not an issue of “How do I learn to trust?” It’s an issue of “What are you choosing to trust in and why?” That’s all it is. You don’t have to spend time learning how to trust. You need to spend the time learning what it is you’re trusting in and changing that if that’s not what you prefer to trust in. It’s trusting in yourself—your true self, the self you prefer to be. That’s up to you. That’s what that definition allows you to do.

So you can see again, with the definitions of habit, the definitions of trust—all these different kinds of definitions—if something seems to not be working, listen to the words that come out of your mouth. Look at how you frame things. Look at how you relate to things. Listen to how you describe them and define them. Pay attention to how you look at these things. Then examine whether or not how you look at them, the framework you’ve put them in, is how you prefer to. And if you find that it doesn’t work for you, use your imagination—this is what it’s for—and find definitions and apply definitions to these things that do work for you.

Because again, life is meaningless. Therefore, you can give it the meaning you want and make it as meaningful in whatever direction as you want to make it. So these situations, issues like habit, issues like trust—they don’t have built-in meanings. You may think they do because you’re in the habit of assigning them unconsciously certain meanings. But again, now that you know you’re in the habit of assigning meanings, you no longer have the habit. You are choosing to assign those meanings. So if you’re choosing to assign a meaning you don’t prefer, why would you do that? Ask yourself. Find out. Explore.

When you then have applied these tools of desire to find the definition that will allow you to dedicate yourself to who you are, you can then easily, effortlessly, joyfully detach from those things that are not you. They just will simply not be seen. They will simply not be defined by you as having anything to do with you.

Detachment: The Fourth Component

You cannot have an emotional response or an emotional reaction to anything if you have no definition for it. If it has nothing to do with you.

If someone were to approach you on the street and they were to say, “I really hate your orange socks,” and you look down and you’re wearing white socks, you would simply shrug your shoulders and go on your way, saying, “Well, that had nothing to do with me.” That’s the point.

It usually actually has nothing to do with you in those situations. It mostly has to do perhaps with the others. Or there’s an opportunity there for you to examine and say, “Well, all right, is this individual bringing something to my attention about myself that I really need to look at?” Hmm. Yes. No. Maybe. It’s a chance and a choice and an opportunity to examine and explore and decide with discernment and integrity and honesty what is and isn’t you.

And when you’ve decided that something that’s being said does have to do with you, then you can say, “Thank you for bringing that to my attention. I will now apply it in whatever way gives me the best joy.” And if it has nothing to do with you, you can say, “Thank you for your offering to believe something that is not me. I choose otherwise,” and go on your way, because it has nothing to do with you and you don’t have to get all caught up in it. “Why did you say that to me? You’ve ruined my day telling me you hate my orange socks when you’re not even wearing them”—has nothing to do with you.

Find out whether it does or doesn’t. But in either case, use it in a positive way. Define the experience. Define the exchange. Define the conversation. Define the situation. Define the circumstance in a positive way, if that’s the effect you want to get from it. Or not. It’s up to you. It’s completely up to you.

But at that moment, when you’ve really taken your desire, found the definition, dedicated yourself to be who you are, you will detach from the things that have nothing to do with you. You will become in that sense more untouchable by vibrations that are not of your reality. You will become more invisible, more transparent, more unaffected by those things. They just simply will not be things you can relate to anymore. It’ll be a detached kind of observation: “Hmm, that was interesting. Interesting chap yelling at me about orange socks that I’m not wearing. Interesting. He has an interesting reality. Bless him for his experience and his choice.”

Bless him and be on your way by blessing yourself for the choices you make. Desire to define your dedication to detach—desire to define your dedication to detach from the things that don’t serve you and thus others.

The Nine Circles Diagram: A Flavoring Tool

Look at a diagram that has the nine circles interconnected with symbols in each circle. Now, this is just a little flavoring tool, a little spicing tool, a little enhancing tool, a little affirmation tool that just adds a little flavor, a little boost, a little spice to other exercises that we will talk about later—other techniques, other tools. But we wish to simply familiarize you with it at the moment. It’s just an idea that keys into certain aspects of your consciousness, your cultural and historical consciousness, keys into certain frequencies in your brain that just allows you to augment, amplify, magnify the other tools we will be discussing later.

These symbols inside the circles are actually ancient Phoenician symbols on your planet. This was chosen because they are of a time and place in your understanding of your history that most of you don’t relate to anymore.

So these symbols as fundamental vibrational symbols can communicate with portions of your consciousness in a way that is less likely to be interfered with by your rational personality.

And so it’s like talking to a deeper portion of yourself.

All it is, all it is—starting in the center is a reminder that that’s where everything begins and that’s what everything comes back to. Starting in the center, go up to the right upper corner, and as you go from the right upper corner down to the bottom, then across the bottom to the left, and then up the left side to the top, and then across to the right to the middle symbol, and then back down to the center again—you are actually receiving the sentence below the image. Read it to yourselves.

What it is is a reminder to your inner self that everything starts in the center and issues there from. And in physical reality, you open your eyes and you use your hands and the sights and sounds, and you absorb all these things. And then through the symbol of water in the center at the bottom, you transform—through emotion, through water, through flexibility—you transform. And as you transform, you create the path that leads to the windows and doors as you go up the left side. Windows and doors—center one top, triangle is the door. Create the path that leads to the windows and doors to the unknown, which is the symbol with the X at the top. And going to the unknown leads back to the center of yourself.

And that’s the key to remember: to redefine the unknown not as a fearful thing, but as that gateway which always leads back to the center of yourself, which always reveals to you—no matter what the experience you have of the unknown may be—it will always be an experience that will lead you to more understanding of more of yourself, if you define it that way.

So starting from the center, and as you use your eyes, your ears, your speech, your hands—all the things in your physical reality that guide you, with which you investigate things—all of that together can be transformed always through flexibility, fluidity, willingness, openness. Always will be transformed into a path that leads to the windows and doors that reveal the unknown, that always leads back to more of yourself at the center.

Meditation

Be comfortable in your chairs. Relax. Put down your objects. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath in and let it out and let go. Let go. Let go of any worries and concerns, any ideas, any chatter. And more importantly, let go of any definitions about the worries, the concerns, the ideas, and the chatter.

If the chatter remains, bless it, love it, invite it in, make it part of your meditation, not an interruption in it. Define it in a way that serves you. No matter what you get, define it in a way that serves you. That’s what this exercise is all about—practicing defining whatever comes into your head in a way that serves you.

So as you relax, if you feel agitation, define it in a way that serves you. Say, “My agitation is putting me in touch with things that will help me, things that will help me understand more of who I am. I will use it in a positive way. Thank you, agitation.” And as soon as you thank it, you probably won’t feel agitated anymore. But use it that way.

Take a deep breath in, let it out. Feel the tension leaving your legs, your thighs, your body, your arms, your hands, your throat, your neck, your shoulders, your jaw, your scalp, your eyes. Don’t fall on the floor, but just relax. Take a deep breath in and hold it. Hold it. Hold it. And let it out. And out.

And now let yourself just float, sit, lie down, stand, whatever. In your imagination, you imagine you are doing. Imagine it in what you imagine to be a place of relaxation, a place of contentment, a place of perfect peace.

It can be green meadows. It can be a mountaintop. It can be outer space. It can be under the water. It can be in a fiery pit of lava. Whatever you imagine is an exciting but calming, beautiful, invigorating, resonating, crystalline place of perfect peace. Something that allows you a space to be you, whatever that may be. Whatever is in it doesn’t matter. Decorate it however your imagination desires. Everything is perfect for what it is in that moment at this time.

Breathe it in. Take a deep breath in. Let out a sigh of satisfaction, a sigh of release, a sigh that lets you know no matter what you’re going through, you’re all right. You always will be. You always have been. You’re an eternal, infinite Spirit. What’s your hurry? What’s your rush? Relax. You’re here. You’re now. You exist. That will never, ever change. Ever.

That’s a promise from God because that’s what God is. God is eternity. God is infinity. And you are a part of God. So that will never change. God can promise that because that’s God’s nature. Even God can’t do anything about that. God is, is, is.

Invite everything in. Everything is a part of All That Is. Greet it. Shake its hand. Sit it down. Pour it some tea. Whatever comes in to this space, this place of perfect peace, invite it in. Talk to it. Ask it what it is, who it is, what it wants. And often you will find if you just after asking that question just listen, it may reveal to you a clue, a hint, a tantalizing tidbit of information about your core belief about yourself, about an idea, a belief you may have. It may show you an experience you have had. It may bring your attention to a person, a place, a thing, a feeling. Let it. Invite it. Thank it in gratitude and appreciation for bringing your attention to whatever it is bringing your attention to.

Sit with what it has told you. Let it in. Feel it. Roll it around in your mouth, in your mind, and your tummy. Feel it with your hands. Smell it. Taste it. Hear it. Whatever it is, just explore it. Even if it appears to be a strange little thing. Even if it appears to be a repulsive thing, explore it.

You are in your place of perfect peace. You are perfectly safe to look at anything. Everything is neutral, devoid of meaning here. It’s just a prop. It’s just a prop. It’s just an idea. It’s just a concept. That’s all it is. Doesn’t have any meaning for you yet. Nothing whatsoever. If it did have, let it go. That meaning dissolves in this place.

Everything here is on neutral ground, neutral territory. Just look at it. Play with it. Talk to it. Think about it. Imagine it. Feel it. In a childlike wonderment, a fascination.

Take a deep breath in and let it out and relax and become comfortable in this place of perfect peace, knowing you can call this place to you anytime you wish because it is within you. You can surround yourself with it anytime you wish because it is you. You can cocoon yourself in it anytime you wish because it comes from you, through you, from All That Is. Your own unique place in the universe, in the multiverse, in All That Is, just for you. An unconditionally loving space created just for you because you count. You count or you wouldn’t exist. You matter or you wouldn’t exist. You belong or you wouldn’t exist. You deserve or you wouldn’t exist. There are no accidental creations.

If you exist, if you’re a part of All That Is, it is important that you exist in order for All That Is to be All That Is. Without you, All That Is would not be All That Is. So you belong. Believe it. Accept it. Acknowledge it. Own it. You exist.

Take a deep breath in and accept it and let out the sigh of release and relief that you don’t have to worry anymore as to whether you belong. Or if you choose to spend time doing so, choose to spend time worrying about whether or not you belong. That’s just a choice you will learn something from. And knowing that will allow you not to worry about worrying so that at least if you choose to worry, you don’t have to judge yourself for worrying on top of it.

It is all right to do whatever you choose to do. You know what your integrity is all about. You know what your truth is. You know what your preferred state of beingness really is. It’s that childlike beauty, that childlike wonderment, that childlike acceptance that what is is what needs to be, is what is beautiful, is All That Is. That there is no exception. That all things belong. That all things belong including you.

Because you are the one, the all. You are unconditionally supported, unconditionally loved. So much so that you even allowed to believe you are not unconditionally loved. That’s how unconditionally loved you are. Imagine that. Imagine that. So unconditionally loved, so unconditionally supported, that you’re even allowed to forget you are unconditionally loved and unconditionally supported. The only way you could forget, the only way you could have an experience of not being supported, is if you are totally supported in having that experience.

Remember that. Rem yourselves. Pull yourselves back together. Remember. Remember yourself as aspects of All That Is exploring itself in all the ways that it can. Each and every one of you a unique perspective, a unique way that All That Is has of looking at itself, experiencing itself through you, as you. And this is true for all beings in creation and all aspects of creation.

So let out what is not you. Take in what is. Invite everything in, both that which is not you and that which is, so you can determine which to make your own. But that which is not you, let it be its own valid idea, its own valid choice. But bless it and let it be on its way. It has nothing to do with you.

Learn to recognize. Learn to recognize who you are. There will be no need to ever feel disappointed if you do not disappoint yourself. Do not take yourself out of the place to which you have been appointed. The one in charge. The one who gets to say. The one who gets to choose who you are, what your life is all about.

You have been appointed as the one in charge. You do not need to choose to disappoint yourself. You can have that experience. And if you do, just remember it’s just an experience. You’re still in charge even if you have chosen to forget that you are. It’s just an illusion.

What you are learning, what you are realizing more and more every day, is that you are learning to use, learning to recognize, learning to see, learning to use the power of the illusion instead of falling into the illusion of power. Learning to use the power of the illusion instead of falling into the illusion of power. That’s the difference. The crux and the key of finding your core belief is allowing yourself to see the illusion of power you may have been under with your definitions. And in redefining and identifying and redefining yourself, you truly shift from the illusion of power to using in fullness the power of the illusion and being free to be you.

Take a deep breath and let it out and shake it off. Shake it out. Open your eyes.

Break