Relationships

Relationships, Self-Judgment, and Weight Loss

Asker: I feel like my spirit guide sent me here before I meet you here. I feel like I already start like cleansing myself.

Bashar: Yes. Did they even make it to here?

Asker: It took me like… I changed three… V-H-A-C-L. Yes. And finally arriving here.

Bashar: Thank you for your persistence.

Asker: When I’m waiting outside for… when I’m waiting out there, I saw Daryl. Then I have a feeling that today I must be chosen.

Bashar: All right. Well, thank you for your synchronicity.

Asker: Um, my question is about relationships, especially about intimate relationship. My expectation for intimate relationship is like sweet as smooth. I hope my relation, my intimate relationship, to be sweet and smooth, but feels like I’m blocked. I cannot achieve.

Bashar: All right. Well, you need to be sweet and smooth first. Which means you have to be more of your true self. Are you afraid to be your true self?

Asker: When I sit down over there, I just look at these crystals, then I feel like all the negative energy, the dark energy, just coming out of me. And I keep just cleansing, keep cleansing, cleansing, and finally I feel like myself become that image.

Bashar: So do you feel that you are balanced? Fully balanced? Or is there something else you can let go of that doesn’t serve you?

Asker: For I feel like much more lighter, delightful, and uh, I feel warm in my heart. And oh, I feel like the darkness of my… is just disappear.

Bashar: All right. Then any relationship that you attract ought to be felt by you as smooth and sweet, no matter what the relationship actually is from the other person. Because if you are balanced, then you understand there is purpose to any relationship in your life, and that will allow you to always feel smooth and sweet with them, even if the other person is not balanced. So the balance has to be within you to experience the smoothness and the sweetness. If we only expected our conversations with all of you to never contain information about negative energies, negative beliefs, negative behaviors, we would never be having a conversation with you. But because we love you unconditionally, then no matter what we discuss, even the darkest, most negative things, we experience our conversations and relationships with you as smooth and sweet. Thank you. Do you understand what we’re saying?

Asker: I feel like I can partly let go, partly let go, and I still feel somehow I have this resistance towards the sweetness and the smoothness.

Bashar: Then what are you afraid of? What are you afraid will happen if you let go?

Asker: Now, for now, I’m not afraid of anything. I feel it’s okay to just let go.

Bashar: You are contradicting your first statement. I’m not talking about when you are okay. I’m talking about when you’re not. So what are you afraid will happen if you let go in those times when you’re afraid to let go? What are you afraid will happen? Doesn’t matter that you might be okay sometimes. That’s not what we’re discussing.

Asker: Uh, this kind of uh, like, it reminds me of my childhood years. Like my mom, my brother will judge me, and my mom is emotionally unavailable.

Bashar: All right. And so you have continued the family tradition of judging yourself. Is that something you wish to continue to do? Yes or no?

Asker: Uh, no.

Bashar: Then stop. You don’t deserve it. Stop punishing yourself for being who you are. Find the sweetness and the smoothness within yourself and love yourself. Yes or no?

Asker: Um, love yourself. Yes or no?

Bashar: I am willing to do it, but I just like… feels like that means…

Bashar: No. That means no. That means no. You’re not going to do it because you’re hesitating. In that answer, you are creating, right now, I can see it in your energy, a reason to not do it. Because when you say, “Well, I’m willing to do it,” means you’re finding a reason not to. Do you believe that if you stop judging yourself like your mother did, that you will dishonor her? What do you think about that?

Asker: Um, yeah. I feel like by stopping judging myself, I disconnect with my mom.

Bashar: But by becoming who you truly are, that is actually the way to connect best. Because if you’re not being yourself, then you are disconnected from her. She may not understand that, but if you understand that, then it’s your responsibility to her to be yourself. Because that’s the only way that there is actually a connection. Being someone you’re not is a disconnection already. So you’re already disconnecting by judging yourself. So why be afraid of disconnecting, since you’re already doing it? Uh, let me translate slowly. Yes. Uh, the first sentence is: uh, it’s your responsibility, huh, to her, not for her, but to her, to be yourself. So if you are not being yourself, you’re already disconnecting. So if you’re already disconnecting, why be afraid of disconnecting? You’re already doing it. She may choose… she may choose to not connect with who you really are, but that doesn’t mean that you’re disconnecting. It means she’s choosing to. That’s her choice. Do you understand now?

Asker: Now I get it. I am 100% willing to be my true self. Thank you.

Bashar: Thank you.

(Applause)

Asker: Can I have one more question? That was a question. Would you like another?

Bashar: Uh, I want… I want to lose some weight.

Bashar: Then stop waiting to be yourself. When you are not being yourself, energy builds up, and if it has nowhere to go, if it’s not flowing through you, it will build up and turn into matter. So the more you flow the energy, the matter will turn back into energy and flow. We understand that the double entendre pun may or may not work in your native language, but it works wonderfully in English. Stop waiting, and you lose weight.

Asker: Thank you for your translation services.

(Applause)

Q&A Session 10: Healing, Flies, and Hypnosis

Participant 9: Sh. Good day, Bashar, and you good day. I have some questions about healing. Um, I’ve had an injury a while ago, and I seem to be holding on to it.

Bashar: Oh, all right. How does it serve you to do so? What are you learning from it? First of all, that you might not have learned had you not had the injury. That would be the first question to always ask: What’s the benefit to having created this? What are you getting out of it? What are you learning? By understanding that deeply, then the injury may not need to stick around. So what have you learned that otherwise you might not have learned?

Participant 9: Mostly that I don’t care for that. That’s it.

Bashar: That’s all you’ve learned by having it? How did you get it? What happened?

Participant 9: I slipped and fell on the ice.

Bashar: All right. And was there something about being on the ice at that moment that was representative of a state you didn’t prefer to be in?

Participant 9: Not that I’m aware of.

Bashar: What were you doing on the ice?

Participant 9: I was just walking. I happened to step on ice. I didn’t really notice the ice in front of me. I was walking along the sidewalk, and then there was a patch of ice that happened.

Bashar: And what were you doing that made you not notice it? What were you focused on?

Participant 9: I’m not 100%. It’s been 15 years or something ago that it happened.

Bashar: It would serve you to understand what you were experiencing at that moment, because the slippage on the ice is something that happened to bring your attention to the state of being you were in at that moment, and what you were going through, to pay attention to that and to work through it. You kind of put yourself in a position of forcing yourself to pay attention to what was going on at that moment. If you haven’t done it, you may need to get into a state where you recall what it is that was actually going on at that moment. Although this is a relatively rare suggestion on our part, we might suggest that you actually avail yourself of someone you trust to hypnotize you to remember what was going on when you slipped on the ice. See if you can recall what was happening at that point in your life.

Participant 9: Awesome. All right. Does that help?

Bashar: It does help.

Participant 9: Um, I have a question about the flies. Why do the… why do the fly… why, why do they make me so crazy? Sometimes they seem to show up at weird times. And do they… now, seeing if you have an opinion on that.

Bashar: Well, how do they annoy you? Exactly. By their buzzing, or just by being there?

Participant 9: Usually, usually by landing on me. They’ll like land on my eyebrow or land on my hand or something. They’re just…

Bashar: I see. So they’re getting you to pay a little bit more attention to your physicality, perhaps. What is your idea and definition of being spiritual? Is it moving away from physicality, or balancing and integrating the concept of physicality into spirituality?

Participant 9: I think it’s both. I mean, feel spiritual and physical simultaneously.

Bashar: And what was it when you slipped on the ice? What were your beliefs about it then?

Participant 9: They seemed more separate then.

Bashar: All right. So slipping on the ice has allowed you to fuse the idea together a little bit more closely.

Participant 9: Yes.

Bashar: Yes. All right. So that’s one benefit you have derived. Can you continue the process of fusing these things without the injury? Do you believe that that is possible for you?

Participant 9: Yes.

Bashar: All right. Go into the hypnosis and see what comes up. You may be very surprised to find certain things that you have forgotten, certain things you didn’t know are happening, but it may put you in touch with what you need to know.

Participant 9: Awesome. Including about the flies.

Bashar: All right. All right. Much appreciated. And to you as well. Thank you. Now, buzz off. Much love. I mean that affectionately.

Participant 9: Definitely. Much love to you as well. Unconditional. Er, uh, thank you for your divine guidance.

Bashar: Hello and good day. And thank you for yours.

Q&A Session 11: Abundance, Needs vs. Wants, and Law of Attraction

Participant 10: Thank you. Um, so my question is, I’m a little bit… I’m not new to the spiritual ascension part, um, balancing it here on the Earth plane, yes. Uh, but I am new to your channelings.

Bashar: Oh, all right. Yeah. So I started practicing because I was introduced two weeks ago, so I started practicing your “highest excitement,” selecting from your… and I noticed that I’m doing pretty good with that. About 50%.

Bashar: Oh, all right. Yeah. So good start. Yeah, ‘cause I pulled the rubber band real far back.

Participant 10: All right. That’s fine. I’m in the uh, starting to fly through stage.

Bashar: So all right. How exciting for you.

Participant 10: Very exciting. Yes, it is. So I’m trying to figure out how you balance… uh, there it is. Either am I choosing from a place of need or want? Because my bank account says one thing, yes, and then there’s another um…

Bashar: So you’re focused on the idea of money as the only expression of abundance.

Participant 10: No. Like, if I was selecting what I really wanted to do after class tomorrow, yes, I would fly somewhere really awesome.

Bashar: Why don’t you then?

Participant 10: Uh, don’t want to spend all my money.

Bashar: Who says you have to? Do you not understand the scope and breadth of what synchronicity could bring you that might allow you to act on your passion without necessarily needing that particular form or symbol of abundance? You have not heard the story of the photographer?

Participant 10: Okay. So I don’t need physical money to go necessarily? Are you saying you have heard the story?

Bashar: No, I have not heard the story. Would you like to hear the story briefly?

Participant 10: Yes.

Bashar: There is a photographer very passionate about photography. Her dream was to fly around the world and photograph all the sacred sites. She did not have the money to do so. But because she remained in a positive state, she was capable of having an inspiration that most people on your planet would have called crazy. Her inspiration was: “I’m going to go to the airline. I’m going to ask them to fly me around the world for free.” Now, she still understood the principle of fair exchange. And so, what did she have to trade with? Her photography. So she went to the airline and said, “If you fly me around the world for free, I will take these beautiful photos of all of these wonderful places that you fly to, and you can use those photos in your brochures to attract other tourists to fly your airline.” Not only did the airline say yes and fly her around the world, they paid her. They put her up in the best hotels, they fed her the best food. She lived like a queen, didn’t spend a dime, made money in the process. Because she was willing to stay in that positive state of inspiration, she had a crazy idea that worked and was representative of that form of abundance. Synchronicity.

Participant 10: That sounds awesome.

Bashar: That’s how life works. Yeah. When you don’t limit yourself to states of being that don’t allow you the inspiration to think of things like that. And when you focus too much on the idea that only one symbol of abundance can achieve the dream, then you shut the doors through which all other forms of abundance can come. Forms of abundance like simply being given a gift. Forms of abundance like exchanging something you already have for that opportunity to fly somewhere. Forms of abundance like synchronicity and inspiration, as we just pointed out in that story. You have to allow all forms of abundance to be equally valid and not single one out, or you pun intended, short-change yourself. Yeah. Okay. Does that make sense?

Participant 10: Yeah, it does. ‘Cause the other piece is uh, uh, feels a little inauthentic. The idea…

Bashar: Well, the idea of exchange feels lovely.

Participant 10: Yes. So uh, I like to do nice things without something in return.

Bashar: That’s fine as well. But remember, you are getting something in return. You’re creating an energy state for yourself by doing something for someone without expecting a return. So you get the energy state of giving and receiving simultaneously. So you are getting something in exchange, and that’s fine. Correct. But there might be certain circumstances and situations where you simply, automatically, and synchronistically realize that you may actually have something to exchange, and that’s fine too. Yeah. But it doesn’t hurt to explore it. It doesn’t hurt to ask. It doesn’t hurt to be inspired and put it out there, no expectations, no insistences. Right? But if you never explore it, if you don’t act on the inspiration, you will never know what could have been possible for you. So just act without insistence and see what happens. You may go farther than you think, or you may get to a place where you realize you don’t actually have to go where you thought you needed to go. Something else better might come along. Because remember, the physical mind is limited in its capacity to understand what could actually be the best thing that might happen for you. The higher mind knows. The physical mind can use the visualization to get it excited and into the proper state to receive what the higher mind can give you, but never insist that the physical mind has a clue as to what the best thing is that could possibly happen for you. Because I’ll tell you a secret: it has no clue at all. Yeah. It’s guessing. It’s guessing. And that’s fine. And sometimes the guess might be right. But never insist that it must be, or again, you prevent the higher mind from actually giving you what will work best for you. Because remember, I understand, and it’s okay, and we’re not telling you to walk on eggshells with your language, and we know what you mean when you say “I want.” But the ideas that sometimes “wants” can get you in trouble, because they may be nothing like what you actually need. And when you get everything you need, you are fulfilled. Whereas sometimes, when you get what you want, it doesn’t fulfill you at all. So if you’re going to want, want what you need, because that will fulfill you.

Participant 10: And I would know what I need because I’m listening to my highest mind.

Bashar: You need air to keep you alive. You need water to keep you alive. You need sleep to keep you alive. You need food to keep you alive. You need some form of shelter or beneficial environment to keep you alive. You need relationship to something, some connection to something, to keep you on the earth and alive. And you need to express your true self through the idea of passion and creativity and love to keep you from dying in spirit. That’s what you need. Everything that will fulfill you falls into one of those categories. And they’re all based on what will kill you the quickest if you don’t have it, or what will allow you to just die slowly over time if you don’t have it. It’s either the death of the body or the death of the spirit, metaphorically speaking. Yeah. Metaphorically speaking. We really don’t die. No, of course not. But your energy can go down and down and down and down in physical terms to the point where you actually do physically die if you do not have those needs. So when you have all those needs, you are fulfilled. You don’t have to insist on what form the needs come. Synchronicity will provide you the correct forms. That’s what synchronicity does. It’s the organizing principle. It knows exactly the forms in which you need to be fulfilled. So yes, sometimes if that happens to be a shiny new car, that’s what will come. If that’s not what comes, that’s not what you need. You have to trust the way synchronicity unfolds. It always unfailingly brings you what you need if you’re in a state to receive it.

Participant 10: Yes, yes. Does this help?

Bashar: Yes. You see, this again is the misunderstanding that many people on your planet have about this concept you call the Law of Attraction. Yes. In some senses, it’s not wrong to say you have to be the vibration of the thing you wish to attract. Yes. Fundamentally, that’s true. But the idea really that many people are missing—the real secret of it—is that your true essential self is always giving off the frequency to attract what you truly need that will fulfill you in life. The only reason it might not manifest is that it’s simply not appropriate at this timing, or your belief systems are actually keeping that thing away. You don’t have to learn to attract what you need. You have to stop keeping it away with beliefs that don’t belong compatibly in your vibrational energy. That’s the big difference in the Law of Attraction. You don’t have to learn to attract; you have to stop keeping things from reaching you. Do you understand?

Participant 10: Yes. Let them reach you. Don’t stop them with your belief systems that are vibrationally incompatible with your true self. And then everything will unfold in perfect timing. Again, that’s the nature of synchronicity. Let it work to your advantage instead of your disadvantage.

Bashar: Yes, yes. Is this helpful?

Participant 10: Yes. It is. Do you feel a little lighter?

Bashar: Yes. Well, maybe you’re light enough to fly there yourself.

Participant 10: Can I ask one more question? Yourself? Can I ask one more question? Again, you’ve just asked the question. Oh, so ask the question. You don’t have to ask if you can ask. Just ask. If it’s inappropriate, I’ll tell you. Have no fear.

Participant 10: Okay. Thank you. Um, so there’s one other thing. I’m starting my business, so I’ll be following my highest…

Bashar: How exciting.

Participant 10: Yeah. Super exciting. Super. So what keeps coming to me too is, I can help people one-on-one or in groups. And the group… the group idea concept feels more inspiring because it feels like I’ll be helping…

Bashar: Then act in that direction. And if for some reason that’s not the compatible direction, synchronicity will turn you around in the other direction. Because it’s a self-guiding, self-perpetuating system. Okay. So act on what you can act on that seems to be the most exciting. If you can’t tell the difference, you might as well flip a coin. And the idea is that, again, whatever you do, act on. If that’s not the correct path for you, synchronicity will flip you in the other direction automatically, because that’s what it does. Okay. Thank you for it’s all automatic. You don’t have to try so hard. Yeah. Just go with the flow. That’s what that means. You have a current, you have a flow. Don’t swim upstream against your own flow. Your current knows where you need to go. Just go with it.

Participant 10: Yes, yes. Thank you so much.

Bashar: Thank you for your guidance. Absolutely. Thank you for your self-guidance.

(Applause)

Q&A Session 12: Shame, Disgust, and Core Beliefs

Participant 11: Hi Bashar, and you good day. It amazes me that I still get nervous.

Bashar: Oh, all right. That is amazing, because we are so smooth and sweet. What is there to be nervous about? Maybe it’s excitement.

Participant 11: Oh, all right. So thank you. Number one. Last time we spoke, we touched upon the darkness. Yes. And I’d like to go there again.

Bashar: All right. Bring your candle.

Participant 11: So we were talking about shame, and you told me that what perpetuates shame often is that the self-judgment that we hold. Yes. So I wanted you to expand more on that, because yes, something that I’ve noticed is, because I’ve gone through such a heavy, dark period, in my opinion, it’s also brought up these new feelings that I’ve never had, which are very dark, but such as, for example, okay, for example, disgust. Because I’m so aware of my negativity that it almost feels like, “What else is there? It’s just me and my negativity.” Yes. And that disgusts you.

Bashar: It’s not that I think it mentally. It’s… I feel it.

Participant 11: It’s like, yes, I know you feel it, but the feeling has to come from a definition. Whether you think it mentally or not, you must be holding a definition in your consciousness somewhere in order to have the feeling. Feelings can’t exist in a vacuum. There’s no such thing as a feeling without a definition first. If you don’t have a definition, you don’t know how to feel. So you can always use the feeling and trace it back to what the definition must be that’s generating the feeling. That’s why the feeling happens. It’s a referral system to help guide you to the definition that’s generating it, so that you can let go of the definition if you don’t prefer the feeling. So you acknowledge the feeling, you own it, that’s fine. You have to acknowledge it to work with it. But use it for the purpose and the design it’s intended: to trace back to what you must believe to be true about yourself in order to have that feeling.

Participant 11: I think it’s almost along the lines of, okay, I’m glad I’m having this human experience. I’m glad I’m learning it’s…

Bashar: Yes, it’s an experience. Yes, it is. But sometimes it does feel like another thing I got to clear. Another thing. And what’s wrong with that in your definitions? Because the process is the point of your life. Processing, learning, growing, discovering is the entire point of being here. There is no way where more important to be. I guess there’s the definition, because yes, your definition is making you impatient to be somewhere other than what you actually need to pay attention to.

Participant 11: So yes. What would you… what would you imagine that is? It’s almost like I just told you. Yeah. You think that what is happening is not as important as what could be happening. You’re creating a difference of definition and invalidating what’s going on, as if it shouldn’t be there. But it is there. So obviously, that’s the point: to experience it and stick with that process. Stay in that moment. Don’t try to get beyond it. Stay with it. Learn why it’s there. Learn what the definition is that’s generating that feeling. Then you will have used it up, and something else can then fill that void that you have now created. The refusal to validate what’s going on, as if it doesn’t belong in your life and you have somewhere more important to be, is what makes it stick around, ‘cause you’re not using it.

Participant 11: And I guess maybe there’s the fear is sometimes, yes, validating it would mean you validate it in the way that you prefer to.

Bashar: Just validating something doesn’t mean that you’re stuck with a negative effect just because the thing you’re validating, in and of itself, may be a negative mechanism. That’s why we said earlier on in this transmission that it’s a neutral observation. You neutralize it by just recognizing, “Oh, okay. I was expressing a negative mechanism there. Okay. I did that. Now, what can I learn from this? How can I use what I don’t prefer in a way that I do?” That’s the point of that moment. That’s the point of the lesson. Right?

Participant 11: No, I understand that. Do you? I think so. But then how come you’re not using it?

Bashar: Because you may have an intellectual comprehension, but understanding is in your bones. What you know is true is in your behavior. What you know, you do. If you’re not doing it, you don’t understand it. Not really.

Participant 11: So on that topic, because that was my second question. Yes. How synchronous of you. Um, yes. How can we bridge that gap? So if I know that it’s my definition, and then I start working with it, and you find out what the definition is…

Bashar: As soon as you actually identify a negative definition, you will immediately see that it is illogical, nonsensical, came from someone else, doesn’t belong to you. And as soon as it appears nonsensical, it’s gone. Because you don’t hold on to things that don’t actually make sense. If you keep doing it, all that means is you have a belief that keeps making it make sense. Find out what that belief is, and see when that belief makes no sense. Then it will collapse, and all secondary beliefs that are negative will collapse along with it. But you have to find the fundamental one. So all the secondary ones will collapse along with it. Sometimes you just find a secondary one and think, “Okay, you’ve let that go,” but you haven’t found the fundamental one. Because that’s one of the things that negative beliefs do: hide under other negative beliefs.

Participant 11: So I think I want to find that fundamental one. Because even as you’re saying, there’s nowhere else you should… I actually agree with you. I know. But there’s still a part of me that doesn’t want to accept it.

Bashar: How about stopping thinking of yourself as a collection of parts, and realize that as soon as you hold on to a belief, that’s the totality of your reality. And as soon as you change it, that’s the totality of your reality. You understand that you’re a different person every moment?

Participant 11: Yes. Mhm.

Bashar: Then why would a different person have the same past that was there a moment ago? Right? You following?

Participant 11: Yes.

Bashar: So if you’re a different person with a different past, what is it that’s affecting you? An illusion. Right? Well, if you understand that, then nothing stops you from moving forward. Okay. Let me ask you this.

Participant 11: Yes, I will. So there’s the unworthiness core negative belief. Yes. And do you have that?

Bashar: I’m not really sure. Maybe. Probably, if we’re having this conversation.

Participant 11: All right. And let’s stop right there then. And stay in the moment. Why do you believe you’re unworthy? Unworthy of what? You’re obviously not unworthy of existence, or you wouldn’t exist. Is that not enough of a reason to be worthy? That All-That-Is thinks you’re worthy of existence? Otherwise, why would you exist? All that is doesn’t make mistakes. There has to be a point to your existence. And if there’s a point to your existence, then you must be worthy of it. So why not start there? This is perfect, because I hear you, but you refuse to accept it.

Participant 11: Yes. So does that mean there’s a belief under that belief?

Bashar: Yes. What’s that belief? Well, what would happen if you accepted it? What are you afraid would happen if you accepted it?

Participant 11: That it’ll turn out to be false. You’ll be disappointed. You’ll be unworthy again somehow. You can’t make it work.

Bashar: One. That could be one. Well, then that’s a belief you’ve discovered. Work with it. Let it go. Does it make sense?

Participant 11: Not really.

Bashar: It’s illogical. If you really stop and think about it, you probably picked it up from your parents, your schooling, your society, your friends. It’s not yours. Stop carrying around other people’s beliefs. Don’t be a belief thief.

Participant 11: See, that’s very, very helpful. Because one of the beneficial things I’ve noticed about this period is that they’re so in my face that it does get to the point where it’s like, “This is ridiculous. Why? What’s the point?” It’s the same story.

Bashar: And that’s exactly where you need to get: to the point where you see that it’s ridiculous. Then you’ll drop it.

Participant 11: And I really want to help other people with that.

Bashar: You will. The more you are yourself, the more you help others.

Participant 11: Okay. I’m going to ask one last question. Are you… is that… oh, I… I don’t want to go there.

Bashar: Oh, go ahead. Let’s see what happens.

Participant 11: Push that button first. Thank you very much.

Bashar: You’re very welcome. Because that was hugely helpful. Um, so I’m aware that I’m moving into a period with a new guide. Yes. And I know that I’m supposed to be patient, and I’m supposed to let it happen.

Bashar: It’s not about “supposed to be.” It’s about knowing that that’s what serves you best. It’s about knowing that’s what serves you best. It’s not about being patient. If you’re living in the moment and having so much fun, what have you got to be patient about? There is nothing better that’s going to happen. That idea is what creates impatience and then forces you to think you have to be patient, because you think that somewhere else is better than where you are.

Participant 11: Yeah. It’s that same definition again.

Bashar: Yes. So it’s not about the idea of being patient. Being patient implies that you need to be patient, which means you’re being impatient. And if you’re living in the moment, there is absolutely no reason to be impatient, because nothing else could be better than what’s happening in the moment. There’s nowhere else you’d rather be. So there’s nothing to be impatient about. So possibly now, the lesson is: explore more in the moment and see what yes’s. Because everything exists in the now. There is nowhere else that things exist. That’s why everything is here and now. There is only now. If I ask you what time it is, you say it’s now. You don’t say it’s “then” or it’s “will be.” It’s now. Now is all there is. Even when you have a photo of something you think is in the past, that photo exists in the present. The photo is not proof of the past; it’s only proof that the photo exists in the present.

Participant 11: Yeah, yeah. So it almost seems like this whole linear thing needs to go.

Bashar: The linear thing is dissolving bit by bit. It still serves you in some way, shape, or form. So not necessarily the whole thing, but it can become much more flexible, much more malleable. So yes, space and time for you are dissolving because you’re beginning to realize them for the illusions they are. That you’re creating. Time is your side effect. It’s a side effect of consciousness. That’s all. So yes, it can become much more plastic. So take advantage of that. Live in the moment. It will become more plastic. You won’t create as much time.

Participant 11: Yes. Does that help?

Bashar: Yes. Very helpful. Thank you. Thank you so much.

Q&A Session 13: New Operating System for Humanity

Participant 12: Bashar. Hello Bashar, and you good day. Um, my question is, over the last 20 years, I’ve been getting these little bits and pieces of download, download, download. Yes. I’m not sure from where.

Bashar: Doesn’t matter. Okay. Do they serve you?

Participant 12: Basically, they came together last December as this picture of um, a new operating system for humanity.

Bashar: All right. How exciting. How creative. What are you going to do with that?

Participant 12: That… that’s exactly what… are you going to do with it? Um, I’m trying to…

Bashar: I beg your pardon. You’re what? Trying? Putting, as opposed to doing?

Participant 12: Okay. Yeah. Yes. What are you doing with it?

Participant 12: I didn’t ask what you’re trying to do. What are you doing with it?

Participant 12: I’m scared.

Bashar: About what?

Participant 12: Not doing well.

Bashar: Then why don’t you do it?

Participant 12: I keep getting blocked.

Bashar: No, you don’t. No, no. Okay. You’re making that up.

Participant 12: Okay. How can I stop making it up?

Bashar: Do it. What’s going to happen if you do it? What are you afraid will happen if you do it? You said you were scared. What are you scared of what will happen if you do it?

Participant 12: Of failing.

Bashar: Failing? What’s failure? Failure is discovering a path that doesn’t work for you. That’s a success.

Participant 12: Okay. Yes, yes. Remember: if at first you don’t succeed, redefine success.

Bashar: Okay. Yes. There is no failure if you learn from it. Not learning from it is the failure. Otherwise, it’s not a failure. Do you understand?

Participant 12: So keep trying. Keep learning. Not trying and doing and learning. Even if you try, learn from it, and then learn to do.

Bashar: Okay. Is this helping?

Participant 12: Yes.

Bashar: Are you sure? You sound tentative.

Participant 12: Are there specific ways of doing what? Ways of doing what? Of moving that idea into the world?

Bashar: Of course, there are. But you’ll find by following your passion, let synchronicity guide you and show you the ways. That’s what it does.

Participant 12: How about people? People are included in synchronicity, aren’t they?

Bashar: Yes. Well, then you’ll find them, won’t you? But first, you have to act and let them know you exist. Otherwise, how are they going to know to find you if you don’t put something out there?

Participant 12: Okay. Yes. Don’t you people advertise?

Bashar: Why do you advertise?

Participant 12: So people will know what you’re offering.

Bashar: So you have to put it out there somehow. You have to make a connection somehow. You have to build a bridge for them somehow, or there’s nothing for them to cross. So start building the bridge. Do what you can. Put it out there. Let people know it exists in all the creative ways you can. Don’t hold back. Be creative. Be excited. Be a child again.

Participant 12: Okay. Stop being such an adult.

Bashar: Be more of a child.

Participant 12: Yes, yes. This is helping.

Bashar: It is helping. Anything else?

Participant 12: Um, or does that serve you? Can you speak more about the process of creation? Like putting something out that wasn’t there before into the world? Since everything already exists…

Bashar: Your unique stamp, okay, on existence. It’s up to you to be more who you are. That’s the process of creation. Because the structure of existence never changes. What changes and expands is creation. Your experience of it, your perspective of it, and your actions in it. That’s the process. So be yourself. Act as yourself. You expand creation in that way by expressing your unique perspective of the structure that never changes. Right?

Participant 12: Yes, yes. It’s that simple.

Bashar: You don’t have to make it more complicated. Unless, of course, you enjoy making it more complicated. If that’s exciting to you, go ahead. I won’t stop you. But if you would like it to be as simple as it actually is, then let it be. And just put it out there and see what happens.

Participant 12: Okay. Yes, yes. And stay in a positive state, no matter what happens, knowing that you will always get a benefit from it if you stay in that state.

Holotropic Meditation Experience

Become very comfortable in your chairs, letting go of the concerns of the day, and beginning to just relax and breathe gently and easily and deeply.

And as your lights begin to play, and as your music rises, allow yourselves to focus on the holotrope before you and just open up. Open up to the vibrational energies that enter your eyes and enter your ears, and the vibrations that touch every inch of the surface of your body and go deep within the cells, into the bloodstream, into the nerves, into the organs, and into the bones, into the molecules, into the atoms, into the subatomic particles, and the vibration at your core that represents your connection to Spirit. Let the vibrations play. Let them sink in. Absorb them. And know that they will go where they need to go.

And as you begin to relax even further, allow your breathing to become gentle, easy, and deep. In and out. In and out. Focus yourself on the holotrope before you as a mirror of infinity, infinite probabilities. Allow yourselves to see it as a symbol. A symbol of the collective consciousness, of the consensus reality, with you at the center of all that surrounds it. And as we have discussed, each of those individual shapes in the different circles that surround the center may be different belief systems. And they may seem similar, and they may seem coherent, and they may seem united. But if they are negative, you know that it is nothing more than a collection of individuals, and they do not experience union, and they do not experience harmony, and they do not experience unity. But you, at the center, do. For as you observe all the different lines of light and color that weave through the holotrope, you notice that at the very center, that which is the reflection of yourself in the society, in the culture, on the planet, in the consensus, that all the lines come together very tightly and lock together very strongly. A powerful web that brings together all the different energies, all the different perspectives, and all the different belief systems that you hold to be true for yourself. Positive, integrative, expansive, connective, impenetrable, indestructible at your core. So densely woven that nothing can penetrate that you don’t invite in.

It may seem sometimes, as you are surrounded by vibrational incompatibility that you do not prefer, but again, it matters not if you understand that your coherence outweighs the discord. That your integration holds fast, even as those around you attempt to disintegrate your society through fear-based beliefs. You can recognize them. You can perceive them. But until you match that frequency, you are untouchable by those realities, by those offerings, by those suggestions, by those beliefs, by those ideas, and by those actions. You are your own reality. Your own universe. And anything you experience with anyone else is because you have agreed to create a shared reality to interact through a simulacrum, a representation, a symbol, and nothing more. For you are the arbiter of what you choose to be true for you. And even though you will retain some ideas of the consensus so that you may participate in that shared reality, only those things that are truly relevant for your journey, truly relevant for your theme, truly relevant for your truth, will remain. All others can burn away like ash in the crucible of your being, in the spark at the center of the consciousness that is you.

Be at that center now. Be the indestructible construct of existence itself, which can not ever be destroyed. It may change. It may transform. It may shift in an infinite number of ways. But your identity, that which makes you you, is unique and sacred and cannot be obliterated. No matter what form you take, no matter from what level you perceive it, it will always be as you perceiving. The fabric you wear may change. The shape of the construct of your identity may morph. But at its core, you are you. You are eternal. You are infinite. You are always you. Always you. Simply exist. You are. And you can never not be you. You are inviolate.

So allow yourselves, as you absorb these vibrations with every breath and release the vibrations with every exhalation, that are the vibrations that you prefer: the sweetness, the beauty, the life, the love, the light. With every outward breath, and with every beat of your heart, sending an electromagnetic bubble racing outward at the speed of light, at the speed of love, at the speed of existence, which is everywhere at once. Breathe it into your very core. Feel the invigoration. Feel the furnace, the spark ignite with the fire of existence, the fire of creation, the fire of life. You are a lie? A reflection of All-That-Is brilliant and beautiful. A beacon lighting your path before you. A vibration of partnership with your higher mind, with the cosmos, with All-That-Is. Walk through life as life walks through you. For you created. You are the crucible. You create your unique perspective, your experience of that which is the unique reflection in the infinite hall of mirrors of All-That-Is. Immune to any vibration that is not compatible with who you know yourselves to be.

The breath of life is within you. The spark of life, light, is within you. You are the heartbeat of existence. You are consciousness itself, reflecting to itself to be, to be, to be. Continue to breathe gently, deeply, as you feel the nurturing vibrations of existence wash through you and over you, and allow yourselves to float freely upon the current of creation. You are supported in all ways. You have but to open to the support that is always here for you, to know its embrace, its unconditional love. Be at peace within yourselves. Be peace itself. Be love itself. Give, and you have received. Receive, to allow others to give. Be the gift that you are, so that others may benefit. Don’t hold back. You always have guidance.

Allow yourselves to continue to breathe in and out, like waves upon the shore. You are on a grand journey to the very center of your being, to the very edge of existence. Or the edge doesn’t exist. Break free and be free. Break through and do. Continue to breathe gently and easily. Drift in the dream of physical reality as your lights dim and your music softens. Float freely in the void of total potential, total probability, and let synchronicity bring you everything you need in perfect timing.