Part 2 of Interstellar Alliance social experiment Step 2

Mazani the Tall Grays

Bashar Bashar
279 min read

A Sudden Shift from Joy to Horror and Back

Asker

I lived my life for years in a very joyful and happy way. I lived according to the formula, even though I did not know the formula because I first heard of you and the formula about three months ago.

So about one year ago, this changed literally overnight without any visible reason. I woke up in the morning and had a feeling of horror — not pain, but horror. This stayed for about three months.

Then I overcame it, and the joy returned, but not as often as before. So now I have a very happy day maybe one in a moment of months, and the last day I was very, very happy was when I got to know about you three months ago. I don’t feel bad or sad; it’s kind of neutral, but I miss this happiness, this feeling of being high without having taken any drugs.

My question is: how can I reconnect to this? Should I reconnect? Should I trust that it will come when it’s important for me?

Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes, you must allow your life to unfold. It is important for you to go through processes. Sometimes the experience that you are describing is allowing your body consciousness to get used to the idea of higher frequencies, which sometimes it may treat as if it is dying. Exposure to higher frequencies may make the body consciousness feel like it is dying, and so that may incite survival mechanisms within you, creating the experience you had of what you are referring to as horror. But it is something that you are going through to allow your body consciousness to be more in alignment with your higher mind, your soul itself. And so yes, the joy can come back more consistently if you are being of service to humanity through some particular action that represents your passion. So the more that you can interact and act with humanity in service to humanity in whatever way your imagination and creativity so directs you and so guides you, will allow the joy to come back into your life in a more consistent way.
Asker
I had two experiences with kind of light balls in my life. The first 30 years ago, when I was walking home, a glancing, blending light appeared just in front of me. The second was about 15 years ago, when I was walking the dog with the daughter of my former husband, and then the light ball crossed over our way from left to right very fast, and we both saw it with our physical eyes. Do you have an idea what this was and what it should say to me?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
These again have to do with your guides, with beings from other dimensions, allowing you to know that you can increase your ability to perceive them, stretching your senses as you expand your consciousness, giving you markers in a sense, representations of vibrational frequencies to attain. So pay attention to how you felt when you experienced those spheres of light, those orbs of light, and allow yourself to come from that vibration — that vibration of awareness, that vibration of astonishment — and know that they are reflections of the same kind of light that you give off as a soul, as a spirit, as a being, as a consciousness. So they are guides, they are friends, they are members of soul families. They are in some way, shape, or form helping to train you to perceive in other realms more readily. They’re letting you know that you are never alone, that you always have help.

Mazani

Asker
Can you tell me something about the Mazani?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
What people on your planet refer to as the tall Grays. That is the Mazani.
Asker
Do they have special information for us?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
They do, but it is not something we can discuss at this time.
Asker
I met one of them in a stage between awakeness and sleep, like a very real dream, and he was coming towards me, standing in front of my bed, very, very tall. But in this state of nearly dreaming, I was afraid and I screamed.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Again, it’s about being exposed to higher frequency energies to get you used to them, so that your physical consciousness will not react in a fearful way, so it will not assume that exposure to that energy means that you are dying. Again, remember many beings have frequencies that are very similar to spirit, and your body consciousness may interpret exposure to that energy as if you are now approaching spirit, which means that you are dying. So in a sense, letting go of any fear of death will allow you to engage with higher frequency beings more readily, more easily, more comfortably.
Asker
That’s a point — I’m afraid of death, yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Remember that death is just waking up into your true self, that’s all it is. Remember that this is a dream. Physical reality is a dream. You are in spirit right now. You never leave spirit; that’s your natural state. So death is nothing more than waking up into your true self as a spirit and letting go of the dream you are having in part of your soul of physical reality. That’s all it is.
Asker
I have one more question concerning you and your people. Do you experience feelings and emotions?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes, joy, happiness — all of those kinds of positive emotions as you would label them. We simply do not choose to experience things like anger or fear. We understand that they are always available, but it is not simply something that we choose because it doesn’t serve us any longer for the lessons that we need to learn, for the processes we need to go through.
Asker
So you don’t have to be incarnated or have a body to experience feelings?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
We have bodies. We are physical beings. We are not spirits fully. We are quasi-physical. We have the traits of spirit, but you would still perceive us as physical beings.
Asker

I’m shifting through infinite parallel realities in order to create this one continuous life experience as this human.

But am I, as All-That-Is, also simultaneously having infinite continuous life experiences as this human? Is it that I am just having the one and I’m shifting through all the possibilities in order to create it, or am I aware of infinite continuous life experiences as this singular human?

Asker
Bashar
Bashar

All-That-Is is aware of everything you’re experiencing as an aspect of itself, including all the different parallel realities that you are choosing to go through and navigating through to create your timeline or your life stream.

So you’re experiencing it as an individual, and simultaneously All-That-Is is experiencing it as you and is aware of everything that you’re experiencing as a part of itself.

Some of the questions you are asking are superfluous. The first two questions were sufficient to answer what it is you’re seeking. Don’t overthink it.

Going Against the Grain in Business and Parenting

Asker

in 2010 I started a design agency specialized in building impact solutions, helping companies define their purpose and then translate that purpose into sustainable and socially impactful business models.

It’s been quite a learning journey. But now, 14 years into it, I’m realizing that I’ve been going a lot against the grain.

Asker
Bashar
Bashar
How can you go more with the flow? Use your creativity and imagination. What would you rather be doing, or how would you rather be doing it? If it is representative of your passion, there is always a way to be doing your passion in the most passionate way. So how could you be doing it differently than you’re doing it now?
Asker
I’ve started to play around with the idea of instead of trying to change others, to really build the visions myself.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, you can’t really change others. You can offer them the opportunity to change, but they have to be the ones to make that decision. So if you’ve been going about it with the idea that you’re supposed to be changing them, then dropping that idea would help you flow more, because it’s all well and good to share with others what you think might be willing to help them, but what they do with the information is none of your business because you don’t know their path. So the idea is to stop focusing on needing to change them and just simply offer them things that you’re excited to offer because that’s who you are, and let them decide whether or not to take those things.
Bashar
Bashar

Yes, it does. That’s why I said it. It removes the weight off your shoulders and the burden that many people on your planet create for themselves of needing others to change.

You can’t need others to change. You can only offer them the opportunity to change, but you must leave it up to them to decide whether or not to match that frequency, whether or not to incorporate that change in their own lives. It’s not your responsibility to make sure that they do.

That’s not your job. Your job is to be yourself, to give off the gifts that you have to give, to offer them to others as potential things that may assist them, but you absolutely have to leave it up to them to decide to incorporate them. That’s none of your business.

Asker
I’ve been carrying the weight of responsibility for quite some time. It has guided some of my decisions. I embarked on that impact journey over the years because I wanted my kids to have a planet to enjoy in the future.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

You never change the planet you’re on. You change your frequency, and you shift to another version of Earth that is already more representative of the frequency change you made within yourself.

So teaching them how to change their frequency, how to navigate through all those different versions of parallel reality Earths by following the formula, is how they will experience the idea of a version of Earth that is more representative of the joy that they create within themselves and the actions that they take that are representative of that joy.

But you can’t be responsible for others. You can only be responsible to them — to be yourself and be the living example of how they could also choose to be like you, to teach them the consequences of choices in a safe and creative way so they understand how everything is connected, how everything is synchronicity, and how to move through the different parallel versions of Earth by following the formula, by being self-empowered, by knowing that they can attract anything they need in life to fulfill themselves without having to hurt themselves or anyone else in order to do so.

And to not be responsible for others, but to be responsible to them by also being living examples of what other people can also, by seeing their example, choose to incorporate within their own lives as well, but to not need them to do so. Remember, you act on your passion for its own sake, not because of what you think it’s going to cause or get you.

Otherwise, you’re making your passion conditional on what other people do.

Asker
There’s always a bit of a discrepancy between my intentions to act on my highest excitement and the short-term conditions I feel I need to go through.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

But you see, that’s contradictory. If you have conditions that are outside conditions, then you’re not acting on your passion, because the true vibration of passion is not reliant on exterior conditions. That’s why I’m saying you act on your passion for its own sake, because that’s who you are, because you have no other choice, not because of what it’s going to get you, not because of how other people are going to react.

That’s an outside condition, and that dampens the idea of your excitement, of your passion, because now it’s not pure.

Asker

I jumped into that journey, which was really fulfilling, obviously, but to translate these values to my children — I have two kids.

If you’d look at my son, you’d see I’m the greatest parent; if you look at my daughter, you might think otherwise. She comes with a bit of anxiety baggage, and I’m really trying really hard to connect with her.

Asker
Bashar
Bashar
What is her age?
Asker
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Have you had any talks with her about the idea of why she thinks it’s important to gauge herself based on what other people think?
Asker
I’ve tried to break that shell, but she’s really pushing me back.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Why? What does she get out of it? Have you asked her that?
Asker
I’ve tried many, many times, but what I get from that, my perception is that she’s a bit insecure about what other people would think, so she’s pushing her parents, especially her dad, away because it makes her look a bit more immature with her group of friends. That’s one of the ideas that has crossed my mind, but honestly, I don’t know.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

Have you told her that you love her unconditionally no matter what she does on a daily basis? All right, then keep doing so and let her go through her process. Just be there for her when she needs you to be. You don’t have to push. You don’t have to try and change her. Just understand that she has chosen a path, chosen a journey.

She can learn eventually, but you have to let her go through her journey. You have to let her go through her path. That might be the hardest thing. It should be the easiest thing if you truly trust that she is a strong soul. Don’t see her as weak; see her as strong, see her as exploring a certain idea, whether it’s positive or negative to you — doesn’t matter. She’s exploring. Just be there for her.

Just tell her, “I’m here for you whatever it is you decide to do, however it is you decide to be. I’m here for you, and I know you have a strong soul, and I trust that you will go through whatever you’re going through in a way that will serve you best.

But I’m here for you if you need me. If not, then I’m still here for you unconditionally.” If you can say that, then perhaps she will lighten up.

The Seven-Headed Dragon, Raising Food Frequency, Amen, Out of Body Experiences, and Synchronicity

Asker
Can you tell me what the seven-headed dragon (aka Lucifer) and the dragon’s tail sweeping in the Book of Revelations, and the year of the dragon, and George Saget’s star magic, and the dragon’s eye while you’re meditating when you see one — what do they all have in common?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
They are archetypal symbols of the journey of humanity in processing the different personality types that are investigating fear-based beliefs, negative beliefs, and transforming them into a positive understanding and creating an evolutionary path for yourself to reclaim your true power.
Asker
How can we raise the frequency of our food, like we can do the same thing to water? So when we say grace, should we actually be saying benevolent things about the food?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
You can, but also remember that when you raise your own frequency, what you will be attracted to eat will be the things of higher frequency automatically.
Asker
And that’s the end of the grace or prayer. Should we or should we not say the word “amen,” because there’s a reference that it might be praising Amun-Ra, who professed to be God but he’s not All-That-Is?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
It will give whatever meaning you give to it. It actually simply means “so be it.” Whatever you decide is the definition that works for you, you can say whatever you wish. It’s just a permission slip. Remember that prayer — grace — is a state of appreciation for what you have in the present. That’s all it is: a state of appreciation and gratitude for what you are and what you have right here and right now. That’s a high vibrational frequency that will attract high vibrational frequency things in physical reality as representations of the frequency you have taken yourself to. So it is an attitude of gratitude and thanks for who you are and what you attract as the lessons you need to learn in life.
Asker
Did I have an out-of-body experience when I read a Sylvia Browne book and followed the directions?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes, you have out-of-body experiences like everyone all the time, especially when you are asleep physically. You don’t necessarily remember all of them, but by focusing yourself on certain information that had to do with it, you may have given yourself the opportunity to remember some of the out-of-body experiences that you have had.
Asker
Coming back, I felt like I was levitating about three feet above my bed and slammed into my bed when I woke up. And then recently I woke up really suddenly because I realized I was in a black space. If that happens again, how can I relax myself and not be so scared and wake myself up?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
What were you afraid of?
Asker
I don’t know. I just remember it was just black, and then suddenly I woke up, and I knew I was in fear, but then I realized well, all right, there is nothing to be afraid of.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
You may have been facing the idea of what people on your planet typically call the shadow self — coming to terms with the idea of any fear-based beliefs you may still be holding on to, because those things can come up when you start to increase your frequency. When you start to shift to higher dimensions, you have to let go of those things, and letting go of those remnants of fear-based beliefs that may exist in your physical mind can create the idea of having to face them, having to truly understand why you’re holding on to them. So increasing your frequency may put you face to face with beliefs you have to let go of.
Asker
I’ve had some supernatural things happen in my life.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Everything is natural, even what you refer to as supernatural.
Asker
Well, one little one is I saw how tuna cans can stack up on top of each other. I had three of them in my cupboard, and I was about eight feet away from my cupboard. I literally saw the tuna can jump off and land next to it. I was like, what energy did that?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
You did. There are moments when humans will slip into a higher frequency state and recognize that they are creating literally the projection of their physical reality, and so in that moment of unguarded, you may have become more of your true self and demonstrated to yourself how you actually can manipulate physical reality because it’s your projection anyway. So you will give yourself these little markers from time to time to remind you that physical reality is extremely malleable, plastic, and flexible, and that you are creating it moment to moment. If you stop focusing so strongly on the idea of only being in physical reality, only focused on physical reality, you can from time to time see physical reality shift itself in ways that seem quite magical.
Asker
So that might be one of my gifts that I’m not aware of.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
It’s a gift you all have, but it comes with the awareness that you are creating your physical reality and not being afraid to allow it to be reflective of the true way in which you are actually generating it.
Asker
I had a dream that my husband and I were walking into a venue where I was going to perform because I’m a singer, and we’re bringing the gear in, and suddenly the place changes into a warehouse, and it’s very dark, but the walls are glass and I can look over and see the next building over, and the people are screaming and running out.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes.
Asker
I’m calm. My husband is kind of sketchy, but then he realizes he can be calm because I’m calm. Was that a premonition of an unveiling?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

It is the recognition of what we have called the splitting prism of different realities that are separated by analogous glass walls where you can see other realities where people may be choosing things that are not your preferred vibration, but they can’t affect you because they can’t get through the glass wall even though you can see them.

So it’s a recognition that you are in your own reality, that there is nothing to fear by observing what other people may be choosing in their realities that is not your vibrational preference, because you have to match their frequency in order to experience what they’re experiencing.

A Sister’s Reincarnation

Asker
Has my sister Jenny reincarnated somewhere, and if so where and what’s she doing?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

Incarnation is multiple simultaneous incarnations, not reincarnation literally in a linear sense.

Everything exists at the same time. So that soul can be having other experiences, but it’s not literally reincarnation in the way that most people on your planet mean it.

So you will always be able to contact the spirit of that being, even if they are experiencing something that to you would represent another incarnation.

So whether or not they’re in physical form or a non-physical form, you can always contact them because every form always exists and every form exists at the same time.

So whatever way in which it is easiest for you to understand how to make that connection, you can use that to make that connection, and that part of the being will always be available to you no matter what else they may be choosing to do, because remember that spirits are multi-dimensional beings.

Asker
What are her little signs, like some people say pennies or feathers, but does she have a particular sign?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
What is it that has occurred in your synchronicity that reminds you of her? Can you remember any instance of simply going about your day and suddenly something just reminded you of her out of the blue, as you say?
Asker
Oh, for sure — like the things that she’s made me, and sewing, and her laughter and stuff.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right, then those things can be the signs that she may use, because the things that you remind yourself of her with are the things that she would most likely use to get in touch with you.

Letting Go of Fear-Based Beliefs

Michael

I realized that I had a negative belief that basically was saying I can’t create what I need, or distilled completely down to I’m separate from All-That-Is, which I know is not true.

Then through recently focusing on using the AAA formula in the last month, I realized after seeing Bashar at the last event that I have a reinforcing mechanism that is saying that if I do get what I need or prefer, that it’s actually going to cause more suffering. My question is, can I continue just using the AAA formula?

Will that be enough, or do I need bigger guns, a bigger permission slip, or some insight from Bashar that would help me finally let go of these fear-based beliefs that I’ve been believing my whole life?

Michael
Bashar
Bashar

You can continue to use the AAA formula, but at the same time, what you really need to do is have deeper investigation into the motivational mechanism of why you would continue to hold on to something you say you don’t prefer.

So you have to ask yourself what you’re getting out of holding on to it, because you believe something worse would happen if you let it go.

That’s the key — the motivational mechanism of understanding what you believe would be the worst thing that would happen if you let go of holding on to the negative thing you’re holding on to, because you believe that somehow holding on to that thing you don’t prefer is actually serving you better than letting it go.

You are afraid that letting it go would cause something worse to happen. You’ve said so in your question. So it’s the motivational mechanism that is the key to understanding. You have to find out what it is you think holding on to this negative thing is preventing you from experiencing that would be worse.

So you need more deeper honest self-investigation as to what that would be, and why you think something worse would happen, and what that worse thing would be.

It’s not a fact; it’s just a story. You have to really wrap your mind around that it’s not a fact that something worse will happen. It’s just a story, but you’re telling yourself that story, or buying into that story, and believing that story, and so it feels safer to hold on to what you’re holding on to even if you don’t prefer it, because again you keep believing that the alternative would be worse. So you need to clarify what that actually is to you.

Counterparts and Dream Symbols

Asker
I would like to talk about counterparts. I have a counterpart. I chose to separate space because the relationship wasn’t aligned.
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Bashar
Bashar
Sometimes counterparts are for that purpose, yes.
Asker
Can you read that I have met my agreement, if my side of the street is clean.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
By asking the question, we assume that you don’t necessarily think that it is.
Asker
I just don’t know. I have done everything I could to be as real and as honest and to end it as sincerely as possible.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

Sometimes counterparts have agreements. But walking away can be part of the agreement. Sometimes it’s the most loving thing you can do because you’re showing the other being the consequences of the choices that they are making that may be vibrationally incompatible with the choices that you prefer, thus giving them the opportunity to either change or continue along the path that they are continuing, which would perpetuate the idea of separation between you physically.

So if what I have just said aligns with you, then you’re doing fine.

Asker
I dreamt there were 3 black panthers and 1 tiger. I’m visited by many big cats in dreams. I’ve made peace with tiger, I still have fear about jaguar. I have fear about black panther because in this dream there were 3 black panthers and 1 tiger. The tiger came close almost to introduce them. The black panthers stayed in the back, and then I woke up.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Are you afraid of your own power?
Asker
Sure.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Why are you afraid of your own power? What are you afraid might happen if you express your power?
Asker
What is power in your definition?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
The ability to be your authentic self.
Asker
Am I afraid to be my authentic self? Yes. I have fear.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Are you afraid to follow your passion? What are you afraid will happen if you do follow your passion?
Asker
Probably just failure.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

How can you fail by following your passion?

Those 2 concepts do not go together. If you have an insistence or an assumption as to what you think the outcome of following your passion might be, and you don’t achieve the outcome you insisted upon, you’re going to call that a failure.

But this is why the formula says to have no insistence and no assumption as to what the outcome might be of acting on your passion, because the real truth, the authentic truth, is that even though sometimes you may guess correctly what the outcome might be, you actually have no idea what the ideal outcome actually needs to look like.

Therefore, if you simply allow synchronicity to show you what the outcome actually would be of acting on your passion, and you’re willing to stay in a positive state no matter what manifests, then in following the formula, your life will continue to flow, you will learn the lessons you need to learn, you will grow and expand your consciousness in that way.

But if you have insistence on what you think is supposed to happen by acting on your passion, then yes, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment because you’re insisting that you know best what the outcome should be, when the truth is you have no idea what the best outcome actually needs to look like.

Asker
Is it possible I have a spiritual contract where the outcome is stuff that doesn’t happen for me in the physical life?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
No.
Asker
Is following your passion supposed to support you?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes.
Asker
So what if that’s not happening?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Then what you’re doing is limiting your definition of support, because there are many forms of support. What kind of support do you think you need?
Asker
The kind that allows me to pay my bills.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
So you’re focused on the form of money. And why are you now?
Asker
I have increasing bills.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Remember, communication is a form of abundance. Have you used communication to communicate with the people that you seem to owe money to, to engage them and include them in your process, to let them know you have every intention of paying them but to describe your situation and see if they’re willing to change your situation in some way, shape, or form that makes it easier for you to pay what you owe?
Asker
I could have more of those conversations.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Have more of them. Put yourself out there in a way that allows you to take advantage of all the different forms of abundance, not just money. Can you name some of the expressions of your passion that you’re acting on?
Asker
Writing, singing, channeling.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Are you saying absolutely none of these are supporting you in any way, shape, or form?
Asker
They support me, but they’re not supporting me enough to support my bills.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Can you change your situation so as to not have the bills?
Asker
I would love to.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
What would that mean to you? You say that you are writing. What have you written?
Asker
I’ve written books, I write prose, I write on Substack, I write fiction, I write about spiritual matters.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
And you said you are channeling to the public.
Asker
Yes, I just started doing life regressions per our conversation where you told me another version of myself was acting out people’s dreams.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
And are you charging for your channeling?
Asker
I’m in a trial period because I wanted to litmus test myself and perfect my process.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Are you charging for your channeling?
Asker
Not this kind.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
That’s the problem. Is your channeling not worth it even in its present stage?
Asker
It’s definitely worth it.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Then why aren’t you charging for it as an equal exchange?
Asker
When I try out a new service, I like to do a trial and offer the service for free so I have a test subgroup.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
How long do your trials last?
Asker
Obviously long enough that it leaves me incapable of paying my bills.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Are you willing to charge even for the trials? Why do you think you need too much of a trial?
Asker
I just like to make sure I’m doing things with integrity.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Do you see what I mean by not actually expressing your authentic power? You’re too hesitant, too unsure that you’re doing something properly. Stop having trials. Just do it. Jump in. Let go of the hesitation, let go of the uncertainty. Just do it. Be your authentic self. Ask for an equal and fair exchange from the get-go. If you understand how to apply that to every aspect of your passion, things will change. But without hesitation as to what they’re worth.
Asker
How do you put a price on that?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
When you feel like you can walk away and feel completely satisfied that you have offered a fair exchange to the others that you are giving your gifts to, then you will feel that it is a balance. If you walk away and feel that something is missing and you are giving yourself the indications that you cannot support yourself, then something is out of balance.
Asker
According to that, I should be charging a lot more for what I do.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Maybe you should, if you believe that you’re worth it.
Asker
I believe that I’m worth it.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Do you?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Here’s where the hangup is: knowing people are in economic straits and then charging what you’re worth — isn’t there a gap?
Asker
The idea is, do you believe that what you’re charging on its own is exorbitant?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Not at this point, but if I were charging the prices that I like — what it’s worth, what I know it’s worth —
Asker
Do you not believe that there are people who would find that amount actually doable and equitable?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
They do. There will be people who won’t. But are they actually your customers?
Asker
Well, there are a lot of people who are the ones in the most need.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar

And remember that while you are charging what you believe you’re worth and attracting customers that are totally happy paying that, you can at the same time offer others who cannot afford it a discount. But that doesn’t mean that you have to offer the same discount to everyone.

You can determine on a case-by-case basis when to share something with someone at a lower amount, but that doesn’t mean you deprive yourself of what you believe you are worth for those customers who are just fine paying it. It’s all about equating to different levels of exchange and doing them all. So sometimes you can offer something for free, sometimes at a discount, sometimes at full price. All of them together will support you.

Asker
So if I charge the price that I actually want to charge, then I will be in the reality where such people who can afford those things will find me.
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Bashar
Bashar
Yes, absolutely. That’s how it works. And the people that can’t will ask, “May I have a discount?” And when they do, or when you get any indication that they may need what you have to share and really want what you have to share and desire it but simply can’t pay you what you have expressed is your authentic worth, then you can decide to offer them a discount. You can negotiate. You can be free to do that on every level. You don’t have to be totally exclusive on one level alone.
Asker
I see. My issue is the assumption of what people can do, as opposed to attracting them all.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Attract them all. You can work with each and every one of them to whatever level they are comfortable with. But the hesitation is preventing you from expressing your authenticity and getting a fair exchange for it for 37 years.
Asker
Yes. Well, I’ve got to change that pronto.
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Self-Love

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My question relates to self-love and ultimately how to stay in a vibration of self-love persistently. I fully discovered that self-love is essentially the first key into getting into a higher consciousness, and I’m having trouble figuring out how to do it and staying there with environments, thoughts, circumstances, and so on of daily life.
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Bashar
Bashar
Well, the first question is: why would you choose to leave that state? Why are you making those outward conditions more powerful than your ability to simply choose the state you prefer? Remember, acting on your passion must be done for its own sake. You can’t make it conditional on outer conditions. Those are reflections, opportunities to match those frequencies. But the question is, why would you choose to match the things that you say you don’t prefer as states of being? So the question to ask yourself is: why would you choose to leave the state of self-love? By exploring that question, it will help you understand why you are doing that.

Question about Withholding Information from a Loved One with Cognitive Deficits

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If we have loved ones who have cognitive deficits, can we keep them at peace even if it means to withhold information from them?
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Bashar
Bashar

If you are determining that the information you are sharing is something that is more important or less important for their peaceful state of being, you have to make that determination.

But if you are withholding information that they need for their own process, then you may need to share the information.

But you need to make the determination as to which way would allow them to exist in a state of being that gives them the opportunity to process things that would allow them to be more of who they truly are.

So you can make that determination to not say something or to say something based on your determination of what will be creating the best state of being for them to be centered and to be who they truly are, which will give them the best opportunity to learn whatever lessons they are here to learn for their soul’s growth.

Asker
I feel like I do. The two options I’m looking at would be: to do what they need for their basic needs and not share certain information with them about how it’s being accomplished, or to let them have the experience of lacking, suffering, and possibly not having all their needs met.
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Bashar
Bashar

Whatever it is you deem to be truly helpful, you can offer them the opportunity to be helped, but they have to accept it.

If they are not accepting it, then it’s none of your business what they do with the information you’re sharing with them that you deem might be helpful to them.

You have to let them determine whether or not they wish to be helped by it. So you can share an idea, but you can say, “It’s up to you to determine whether or not this is something you would like to accept.”

You have no agenda as to whether or not they accept what it is that you deem might be helpful for them.

Animal Communication and Death

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I’m an animal communicator. I talk to many animals before they died. They always knew when it was their time of death.

But recently, I talked to one dog who said, “I’m dying.” But then I communicated with its owner and gave the dog Reiki. The dog didn’t die.

So do animals know their time of death? Did the owner process what they needed to process and they moved into a different reality? Do animals have spirit guides as humans do?

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Bashar
Bashar
Yes to all of that.

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